Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 Anyone else feel the idea of getting married and having kids being completely pointless and waste of time? Even being in relationships have started to bore and frustrate me a lot. My SO although a nice loving girl would constantly complain about anything and everything that existed ever since this planet came into being 4.6 billion years ago. It's like I'm sick of her continuous grumblings and the fact that for her Shadi is the ultimate goal in life. Honestly why are women so annoying and dreadful? I feel like running away from everyone and start a new life on an island where I can live in peace and solitude. What are ICFers thoughts on this? 3 2 sandeep, Mariyam, flamy and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
velu 16,164 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 48 minutes ago, Stradlater said: Anyone else feel the idea of getting married and having kids being completely pointless and waste of time? i hate babies 1 1 1 beetle, Stradlater and Gollum reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 30 minutes ago, velu said: i hate babies Nasty little things. 1 2 1 riya, Gollum, beetle and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coffee_rules 3,737 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 55 minutes ago, velu said: i hate babies I hate Ice cream . 1 1 beetle and velu reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DHONI_FANN 2,782 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 4 hours ago, Stradlater said: Anyone else feel the idea of getting married and having kids being completely pointless and waste of time? Even being in relationships have started to bore and frustrate me a lot. My SO although a nice loving girl would constantly complain about anything and everything that existed ever since this planet came into being 4.6 billion years ago. It's like I'm sick of her continuous grumblings and the fact that for her Shadi is the ultimate goal in life. Honestly why are women so annoying and dreadful? I feel like running away from everyone and start a new life on an island where I can live in peace and solitude. What are ICFers thoughts on this? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mariyam 2,598 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 (edited) 4 hours ago, Stradlater said: Anyone else feel the idea of getting married and having kids being completely pointless and waste of time? Even being in relationships have started to bore and frustrate me a lot. My SO although a nice loving girl would constantly complain about anything and everything that existed ever since this planet came into being 4.6 billion years ago. It's like I'm sick of her continuous grumblings and the fact that for her Shadi is the ultimate goal in life. Honestly why are women so annoying and dreadful? I feel like running away from everyone and start a new life on an island where I can live in peace and solitude. What are ICFers thoughts on this? I do not mean any disrespect, but you are 'grumbling' about "the history of Pakistan" in the other thread. How Pakistanis view their history has very less direct impact on most of our lives. Yet you choose to engage, argue and debate on the topic. The point I'm trying to make is that everyone has their own set of idiosyncrasies and quirks. Believe it or not, 'grumbling', as you put it, in Jung's view is essentially an attempt to find a common foe/ area of discomfort so that the two of you can better bond together. You probably should just tell her that you find her extreme complaining very disturbing. Most people would take the hint. I am unable to understand how you've linked all of this to marriage and even concluded that getting married and having kids is a waste of time Edited April 18, 2018 by Mariyam Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FischerTal 1,031 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 marriage is an institution....... a lovely mental institution 1 randomGuy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wanted_desi 2,756 Report post Posted April 18, 2018 I just feel your girl is boring. You need to get a new girlfriend. 2 1 Trichromatic, Under_Score and beetle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beetle 14,333 Report post Posted April 19, 2018 (edited) What is SO? You are with the wrong person....or may be you are the wrong person. Tell her how you hate marriage and kids. She will leave you.It is very easy. The marrying type will find you useless and a waste of her time. Do not marry till you find someone you like to be around despite her irritating habits. Learn to focus on the good stuff and unfocus and blur out the bad stuff. When you can do so , if you can do that and still like what you see,you will be ready. Till then , keep looking. There is no time or age for marriage. Tab tak cricket dekho or mazaa karo. Edited April 19, 2018 by beetle 1 4 asterix, Mariyam, Under_Score and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mariyam 2,598 Report post Posted April 19, 2018 @beetle SO = significant other 1 beetle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dial_100 484 Report post Posted April 19, 2018 10 hours ago, Mariyam said: I do not mean any disrespect, but you are 'grumbling' about "the history of Pakistan" in the other thread. How Pakistanis view their history has very less direct impact on most of our lives. Yet you choose to engage, argue and debate on the topic. The point I'm trying to make is that everyone has their own set of idiosyncrasies and quirks. Believe it or not, 'grumbling', as you put it, in Jung's view is essentially an attempt to find a common foe/ area of discomfort so that the two of you can better bond together. You probably should just tell her that you find her extreme complaining very disturbing. Most people would take the hint. I am unable to understand how you've linked all of this to marriage and even concluded that getting married and having kids is a waste of time Pehle pitega phir marega. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FischerTal 1,031 Report post Posted April 19, 2018 paresh rawal described it best in the movie "Hungama". "shaadi aur yudh mein sirf ek farak hain. shaadi mein aap ne dushman ke saath raat kon saun sakte hain bas" (there is only one difference between marriage and war. in marriage, you get to sleep with your enemy at night) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beetle 14,333 Report post Posted April 19, 2018 2 hours ago, Mariyam said: @beetle SO = significant other That is so clinical. How about lol?....love of life.my husband has saved my number by that . 2 4 1 wanted_desi, Tattieboy, Under_Score and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikred 688 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 That is so clinical. How about lol?....love of life:wp7:.my husband has saved my number by that .I should try something similar.LMAO - love my angelic one. Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk 2 flamy and beetle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 Problem is she loves me a lot. I know she does. And she's a nice girl IRL. Not like your typical selfie girl but quite down to earth and gentle. Problem is she's quite annoying and I often feel like punching her that's how dumb she is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tattieboy 679 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 1 hour ago, Stradlater said: Problem is she loves me a lot. I know she does. And she's a nice girl IRL. Not like your typical selfie girl but quite down to earth and gentle. Problem is she's quite annoying and I often feel like punching her that's how dumb she is. My advice to your " SO" would be to run as far away from you as possible 4 beetle, coffee_rules, Laaloo and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Tattieboy said: My advice to your " SO" would be to run as far away from you as possible Same here. If only she was sensible enough. Edit: What's with the username. Took Swachh Bharat Abhiyan way too seriously? Edited April 24, 2018 by Stradlater Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riya 161 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 You are the Ranbir Kapoor of ICF... 1 beetle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 17 minutes ago, riya said: You are the Ranbir Kapoor of ICF... I wish I had his looks or body or swag or money. I'm fat and unemployed and pass my time posting on 6 different kind of forums. 1 1 randomGuy and beetle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beetle 14,333 Report post Posted May 17, 2018 On 4/24/2018 at 10:29 PM, Stradlater said: I wish I had his looks or body or swag or money. I'm fat and unemployed and pass my time posting on 6 different kind of forums. His body and swag is not much....very average ....the money is good through. 1 riya reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted May 18, 2018 5 hours ago, beetle said: His body and swag is not much....very average ....the money is good through. Come on he's a good looking fella Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riya 161 Report post Posted May 19, 2018 14 hours ago, Stradlater said: Come on he's a good looking fella He is a boring looking guy... 1 beetle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kira 3,508 Report post Posted May 19, 2018 On 4/24/2018 at 10:29 PM, Stradlater said: I wish I had his looks or body or swag or money. I'm fat and unemployed and pass my time posting on 6 different kind of forums. Well at least you are honest Are you tm riddle from the phateechar forum? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted May 19, 2018 37 minutes ago, kira said: Well at least you are honest Are you tm riddle from the phateechar forum? Nah wasn't active there as much. Mostly lurking. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
punjabi_khota 164 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far 1 4 3 1 nospam, asterix, DHONI_FANN and 6 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 4 minutes ago, punjabi_khota said: Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far You mean changing diapers and waking up in the middle of night to check upon him? Btw congratulations. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
punjabi_khota 164 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 3 minutes ago, Stradlater said: You mean changing diapers and waking up in the middle of night to check upon him? Btw congratulations. haan bhai...i still can't believe that even diaper changing is a rewarding experience 3 2 Under_Score, Stradlater, beetle and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beetle 14,333 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 10 minutes ago, punjabi_khota said: Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far Hey PK.....congrats !!!! Enjoy the angel before the horns and the tail come out. Seriously pk....it is the best experience .enjoy every moment and take lots of pictures and videos . You can have so much fun watching them later on . The best therapy in the world. 3 1 punjabi_khota, nikred, Mariyam and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beetle 14,333 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 On 5/19/2018 at 6:09 AM, riya said: He is a boring looking guy... Boring looking,boring sounding. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Under_Score 1,188 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 17 minutes ago, punjabi_khota said: Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far Congratulations dude!!....Cheers 1 punjabi_khota reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
randomGuy 688 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 On 4/24/2018 at 10:29 PM, Stradlater said: I wish I had his looks or body or swag or money. I'm fat and unemployed and pass my time posting on 6 different kind of forums. That's the worst part. Being unemployed can be great. 1 Stradlater reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stradlater 2,428 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 14 minutes ago, randomGuy said: That's the worst part. Being unemployed can be great. Not that great when your mother calls you nalayak and nikamma on a regular basis. Not to mention the long looks your dad gives whenever he sees you relaxing on the couch watching the game of cricket. 1 DHONI_FANN reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
randomGuy 688 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 (edited) 39 minutes ago, Stradlater said: Not that great when your mother calls you nalayak and nikamma on a regular basis. Not to mention the long looks your dad gives whenever he sees you relaxing on the couch watching the game of cricket. Story of every house. Badiya bhai... I was wilfully unemployed for a long time After leaving a s/w job ..lot of scepticism from mom n dad.... Then I topped a government exam in 20 k people (just one month prep).. Parents never dared to call me nalayak after that :can'tstop:... appointment process took yet another year.... So yet another year of enjoyment.... The job itself is 5 hrs a day... Edited May 20, 2018 by randomGuy 1 Stradlater reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mariyam 2,598 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 @punjabi_khota congratulations! Parenthood is a happiness multiplier!! 1 2 punjabi_khota, beetle and riya reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
asterix 6,066 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far Congratulations!! PK... 1 punjabi_khota reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nospam 56 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 8 hours ago, punjabi_khota said: haan bhai...i still can't believe that even diaper changing is a rewarding experience 8 hours ago, punjabi_khota said: Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far Congratulations! 1 punjabi_khota reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DHONI_FANN 2,782 Report post Posted May 20, 2018 10 hours ago, punjabi_khota said: Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far Congrats Sirji 1 punjabi_khota reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dial_100 484 Report post Posted May 21, 2018 (edited) 23 hours ago, punjabi_khota said: Just had a baby boy ...loving the experience so far Congratulations pk. Edited May 21, 2018 by dial_100 1 punjabi_khota reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
