mishra Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 2 hours ago, R!TTER said: The biggest solution is IMO, for most problems in the world - Don't have expectations (or hope) from anyone else but yourself - I've seen even the closest friends/relatives kinda stab you in the back when you least expected it! Life is all about yourself & your own journey, sure you can be naive but don't fall in the trap of trusting anyone enough that they can hurt you - fatally at that The one thing I've learnt over the years is that the less expectations you have from anyone - a person, this *ing society or the world the better you'd be! In that sense I don't believe anything or anyone, including gods, anymore. And the BS that keeps being romanticized in stupid films like 3 idiots is just BS - you can work all your life & just a minor slip/blip can ruin it almost entirely for you, that includes trusting someone Sane advice. But not easy to practice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randomGuy Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 (edited) Edited December 14, 2024 by randomGuy mishra 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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randomGuy Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 We are a screwed up people living a screwed up society. No other explanation for such evil laws. Atul was a Hero. I believe his sacrifice will not go waste. coffee_rules 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffee_rules Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 On 12/13/2024 at 8:23 AM, I6MTW said: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianWomen/s/wOJuSRhDOp Read this everyone. Before coming to conclusions or support. Not safe to use Google drive. What does it say? That he is an average Joe/ With biases? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kepler37b Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 The biggest culprit, I would say, is the legal system. The judge was a vampire and was ready to suck the blood out of Atul for bribe. Giving 120 dates is pure spite and inhumane cruelty. The defendant, atleast must have the right to choose where he fights the case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kepler37b Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 (edited) 1 hour ago, randomGuy said: We are a screwed up people living a screwed up society. No other explanation for such evil laws. Atul was a Hero. I believe his sacrifice will not go waste. Reminds me of what naipaul says in "India a wounded civilization" Being subjugated by various foreign invaders has permanently damaged the psyche of indian people. Edited December 14, 2024 by kepler37b Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kepler37b Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 It also does not help that Atul was a proper studycel and a worker drone. These kids are equipped/raised to succeed in a controlled environment. As soon as they face the cruel mofos in real world, they freeze and give up. A healthy does of cynicism and nilhilism are mandatory. AuxiliA 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stan AF Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 9 hours ago, R!TTER said: The biggest solution is IMO, for most problems in the world - Don't have expectations (or hope) from anyone else but yourself - I've seen even the closest friends/relatives kinda stab you in the back when you least expected it! Life is all about yourself & your own journey, sure you can be naive but don't fall in the trap of trusting anyone enough that they can hurt you - fatally at that The one thing I've learnt over the years is that the less expectations you have from anyone - a person, this *ing society or the world the better you'd be! In that sense I don't believe anything or anyone, including gods, anymore. And the BS that keeps being romanticized in stupid films like 3 idiots is just BS - you can work all your life & just a minor slip/blip can ruin it almost entirely for you, that includes trusting someone Yup. Wish someone told me this more than a decade ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 2 hours ago, randomGuy said: We are a screwed up people living a screwed up society. No other explanation for such evil laws. Atul was a Hero. I believe his sacrifice will not go waste. no arrests yet. That judge lady continues to take bribes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jigjig Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 No expectations is Nirvana. I hope everyone gets there. Clear laws for financial liability in case of separation should help reduce conflicts at the time of separation and ego trips. Like some states in the US have clear financial liabilities laid, no fault divorce! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zen Posted December 14, 2024 Share Posted December 14, 2024 Marriage could be turning into an outdated concept as a) both men and women have the opportunity to be financially independent, making the couples less reliant on each other, b) people change with time so it can get difficult to maintain a relationship based on old understandings, c) time spent with the spouse is relatively reducing due to various other life and work commitments and distractions, weakening the emotional bond b/w couples, d) various pressures in life can make people relatively mentally unstable and sensitive, and e) due to social media, mobile phones, etc., it is easy to access various negative opinions and therefore be exposed to negative social influence Lord 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Posted December 15, 2024 Share Posted December 15, 2024 no arrests but some effect atleast mishra 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randomGuy Posted December 15, 2024 Share Posted December 15, 2024 (edited) 1 hour ago, Lord said: no arrests but some effect atleast Judge Rita kaushik still remaining.... But Atuls sacrifice was for bigger purpose of amending the evil laws which will ultimately destroy Hindu marriage system, and ultimately destroy all Hindus, if not amended....it is 15 years overdue. Edited December 15, 2024 by randomGuy Lord and mishra 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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randomGuy Posted December 16, 2024 Share Posted December 16, 2024 ^^ sorry bro, can't be laughing in this thread at cricket/dhoni jokes...too serious a matter Lord 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Posted December 16, 2024 Share Posted December 16, 2024 1 minute ago, randomGuy said: ^^ sorry bro, can't be laughing in this thread at cricket/dhoni jokes...too serious a matter Apologies. Deleted it. I have been following Deepika's handle. There are thousands of such cases. Hope laws are amended now. mishra and randomGuy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vayuu1 Posted December 16, 2024 Share Posted December 16, 2024 On 12/13/2024 at 6:53 PM, I6MTW said: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianWomen/s/wOJuSRhDOp Read this everyone. Before coming to conclusions or support. Didn't find anything wrong in his letter to be honest its just some liberandus doing there RR on his letters which called fake feminazi's tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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