akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 @BP One more thing - You do not have to be all goodie-goodie in others' perspective. All it matters is whether you are at peace with yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 @BP, if you are actually telling the truth, and it is bothering you - then better see some counselors - don't hesitate, it is not something to be ashamed of...- or confide with someone you trust - better be closest blood relative. Everybody has a past, but if the baggage gets in the way of leading rest of your life peacefully - then better get some help. And ICF is definitely not the place. Lol, i wanna be a good guy, but my friends wouldn't allow it. They will brand me girly and make fun of me if i dont do stuffs they do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cricket Tragic Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 Lol' date=' i wanna be a good guy, but my friends wouldn't allow it. They will brand me girly and make fun of me if i dont do stuffs they do.[/quote'] How old are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 :WTF: It'll be rotten Kanji' date=' not liquor after one week. Really your friends consume that sh!t?:haha:[/quote'] yeah, they gave it to me as well. I told u what kind of people i have friends in my life. Absolute thugs. lol. :haha: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 Lol' date=' i wanna be a good guy, but my friends wouldn't allow it. They will brand me girly and make fun of me if i dont do stuffs they do.[/quote'] And you want your life to be dictated by others? I remember you were talking about being strong, getting up ( your signature etc). etc etc. Anyway, I have no business there. But, as I said before - if you are at peace with yourself - nothing else should matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 May be you are a thief who steals regularly from shopping malls:giggle: oh ****, no. i wouldn't like to share it man. mods have already told me my posts are voilent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 well - if you can't face them - get out of that place. go join some univ/course/job far far away. Once you take the first step, you will find people who will support you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urbestfriend Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 oh ****' date=' no. i wouldn't like to share it man. mods have already told me my posts are voilent.[/quote'] Ok, I can provide you immunity from mods...Now tell us what are you upto. :hmmm: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 And you want your life to be dictated by others? I remember you were talking about being strong, getting up ( your signature etc). etc etc. Anyway, I have no business there. But, as I said before - if you are at peace with yourself - nothing else should matter. I have enjoyed with girls man, i am at peace with myself abt girls. But most of the time i got girls because i behaved like a thug in college and in my office. The only thing i want is to be a good son for my dad. He has lot of hopes with me but i never made him proud with my actions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 well - if you can't face them - get out of that place. go join some univ/course/job far far away. Once you take the first step, you will find people who will support you. Finished my college life. Working in a mnc as a dot net programmer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 Lol' date=' i wanna be a good guy, but my friends wouldn't allow it. [b']They will brand me girly and make fun of me if i dont do stuffs they do. You know what - being dictated by your friends, to do stuff, you really do not want to do - is even more girly!!! (sorry girls@ICF, no offence). Be a man, and choose your own path, I am sure it is not a life-death situation - even if it is - there are ways to deal with it. I have enjoyed with girls man, i am at peace with myself abt girls. But most of the time i got girls because i behaved like a thug in college and in my office. The only thing i want is to be a good son for my dad. He has lot of hopes with me but i never made him proud with my actions. Life is not just about - getting laid -. The thing that you confessed, that you do stuff, that you do not enjoy doing - just out of fear of being ridiculed - that is where you need to find peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 Finished my college life. Working in a mnc as a dot net programmer. As per my initial assessment - perhaps you are not ready for job. The easy cash flow might spoil you even more - given that you are not able to man-up to your friends. I would suggest, go for higher studies - far away from your current circle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 As per my initial assessment - perhaps you are not ready for job. The easy cash flow might spoil you even more - given that you are not able to man-up to your friends. I would suggest, go for higher studies - far away from your current circle. Ok, bro, i will seriously consider it. Thanks for ur concern.:icflove: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 You know what - being dictated by your friends, to do stuff, you really do not want to do - is even more girly!!! (sorry girls@ICF, no offence). Be a man, and choose your own path, I am sure it is not a life-death situation - even if it is - there are ways to deal with it. Life is not just about - getting laid -. The thing that you confessed, that you do stuff, that you do not enjoy doing - just out of fear of being ridiculed - that is where you need to find peace. When i was in college i coudnt think anything else but getting laid with girls. But i know i can change myself with a new location, univ/college. Thanks for your concern man. :two_thumbs_up: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 jaa bhai aish kar... 21 saal kuchh bhi nahi hotey.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Panther Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 jaa bhai aish kar... 21 saal kuchh bhi nahi hotey.. Yeah, sure, i will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonishaSarabhai Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 :WTF: Am I the only one on ICF who hasn't been to jail? :cantstop: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonishaSarabhai Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 my confession will sound so lame compared to the others in this thread. in 2nd std, for craft class everyone had to get the material from home - paper, scissors, glue, etc, etc. i dont know what i was thinking but i just took the scissors and cut my friend's hair... around 2inches :( she was sitting right in front of me. horrible thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WC2011INDIA Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 :WTF: Am I the only one on ICF who hasn't been to jail? I haven't been to jail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akshayxyz Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 I haven't been to jail. Why you had to justify here :winky:. you seriously thought everyone else but you and CT - have been there ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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