Holysmoke Posted October 18, 2007 Share Posted October 18, 2007 This thread is really dsturbing. Why are married people talking about jerking off in such a longing/reminiscing way ? I am GLAD i don't have a reason to look at porn anymore and havn't for years. Arn't you ? GKD talks about everything in the same fashion. (:hysterical:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gs Posted October 18, 2007 Share Posted October 18, 2007 Pakistan figures in all 3 lists - Jihad, Terrorism and Taliban - tops 2 of them in that. Surprise Surprise! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaurav Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 This thread is really dsturbing. Why are married people talking about jerking off in such a longing/reminiscing way ? I am GLAD i don't have a reason to look at porn anymore and havn't for years. Arn't you ? :hysterical: Maybe you should as you are too strung up! :finger: What has marriage got to do with porn? I know plenty of married people who watch porn with their partners. Plus I guarantee you that MOST married men look at porn! (provided they have the means) Just because a man gets married does not mean that he gets an automatic brain transplant. There is nothing wrong with private fantasy. It's completely natural and healthy. Obviously too much of anything is bad (note to Sandy) :haha: I have sex almost 5 times a week on average (after being 10 years with my partner). In those 10 years not once have I fantasized about any other girls while making love to my partner. The thought does not even come into my mind as I totally love my partner. I rather have such natural love making than some priest wannabe telling me that "no porn" is the way to go! Tharki for life here :finger: But like cricketics said ...don't believe everything you read online. I could be a female from Rawalpindi with a humongous back side :hysterical: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineleg Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 :hysterical: Maybe you should as you are too strung up! :finger: What has marriage got to do with porn? I know plenty of married people who watch porn with their partners. Plus I guarantee you that MOST married men look at porn! (provided they have the means) Just because a man gets married does not mean that he gets an automatic brain transplant. There is nothing wrong with private fantasy. It's completely natural and healthy. Obviously too much of anything is bad (note to Sandy) :haha: I have sex almost 5 times a week on average (after being 10 years with my partner). In those 10 years not once have I fantasized about any other girls while making love to my partner. The thought does not even come into my mind as I totally love my partner. I rather have such natural love making than some priest wannabe telling me that "no porn" is the way to go! Tharki for life here :finger: But like cricketics said ...don't believe everything you read online. I could be a female from Rawalpindi with a humongous back side :hysterical: GKD is on a high! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffee_rules Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 This list has to be bogus. Saw the same article in NY Post today, aptly enough. Made for tabloid news. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
head coach Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Watching porn on internet is an illusion How can you get satisfied seeing somebody doing it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Watching porn on internet is an illusion How can you get satisfied seeing somebody doing it? The world is an illusion my friend. How do you get enjoyment watching a Test match? Surely you aint playing out there, are you? And porn includes everything from movies to fantasies to stills to myriad of other things. Apparently for Indians anything that has a bit of flesh is tagged as porn! xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ram Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 The world is an illusion my friend. How do you get enjoyment watching a Test match? Surely you aint playing out there, are you? xx :haha: Good question.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Just because a man gets married does not mean that he gets an automatic brain transplant. There is nothing wrong with private fantasy. It's completely natural and healthy. Obviously too much of anything is bad (note to Sandy). You are such an ass GKD!(I didnt say piece of ass so quit getting tharki already!) Fantasy is natural and healthy?? What an understatement. I say it is mandatory for adults. And lets not get all caught up with the whole married man concept, women tend to have as much fantasies as men do, actually many women tend to have more. It is just that this whole concept is dealt with in such a tabboo manner(specially in Indian culture) that it is deemed dirty and all that jazz. By the way what's wrong with a Rawalpindi woman with a humongous back side? So long as it is cellulite free I say bring it on :D xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
head coach Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 The world is an illusion my friend. How do you get enjoyment watching a Test match? Surely you aint playing out there, are you? And porn includes everything from movies to fantasies to stills to myriad of other things. Apparently for Indians anything that has a bit of flesh is tagged as porn! xx Well Lurker there is a slight difference: If you are to compare both then yes people are fascinated seeing men/women perform at a very high level. In our given circumstances we are not able to compete in a sport lets us say cricket and the love of the games lets us watch it endlessly for days. But that is the not the case with your own sex life if you have one. Will you choose porn over sex with your partner? It has to be determined whether porn is just a fantasy or is it a habit or is it something that you want to try out with your partner rather than seeing others do it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 If you are to compare both then yes people are fascinated seeing men/women perform at a very high level. In our given circumstances we are not able to compete in a sport lets us say cricket and the love of the games lets us watch it endlessly for days. But that is the not the case with your own sex life if you have one. Will you choose porn over sex with your partner? It has to be determined whether porn is just a fantasy or is it a habit or is it something that you want to try out with your partner rather than seeing others do it? HC, For the bulk of Indians they shall watch cricket regardless of who is playing. So I am not convinced about the skillset difference. Look at it this way, if you watch television you essentially see what happens around you in a more sugarcoated manner presented as series, films etc. You enjoy them, dont you? My answer to your question about porn being something I would want to try out with my partner is that to me they are two different issues. Not related at all. xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
head coach Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Well my take on watching a porn movie alone is this: If somebody is unwilling to combine porn with their sex life meaning not include their partner while watching a porn movie then he/she sees it has something private and he/she is forfeiting a sex life with partner in favor of a sex life with pictures and movies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
living Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Honestly the reason in India the search is sex is because unlike americans our bhole bhai's don't know the names of the actresses hence they go for the general "sex" search :giggle: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bongosamaj Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 :hysterical: Maybe you should as you are too strung up! :finger: What has marriage got to do with porn? I know plenty of married people who watch porn with their partners. Plus I guarantee you that MOST married men look at porn! (provided they have the means) Just because a man gets married does not mean that he gets an automatic brain transplant. There is nothing wrong with private fantasy. It's completely natural and healthy. Obviously too much of anything is bad (note to Sandy) :haha: I have sex almost 5 times a week on average (after being 10 years with my partner). In those 10 years not once have I fantasized about any other girls while making love to my partner. The thought does not even come into my mind as I totally love my partner. I rather have such natural love making than some priest wannabe telling me that "no porn" is the way to go! Tharki for life here :finger: But like cricketics said ...don't believe everything you read online. I could be a female from Rawalpindi with a humongous back side :hysterical: About the highlighted part, i find it curiously funny. What has marriage got to do with porn ?!? eh ? Porn is a fantasy, in marriage you get real sex. Once I am getting sex, there is absolutely zero reason to see porn, for the real deal is way sweeter. If you are involved with someone and you still watch porn, there's something messed up there- unless its a shared activity that gets the kink in your marriage going. But whatever, i find porn to be juvenile and once you taste the real honey, i don't see how one can even get aroused by digital honey again. Its like a man who only knew a bullock cart as mode of transport has just been handed a ferarri. Why still hang on to the bullock cart ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineleg Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Its like a man who only knew a bullock cart as mode of transport has just been handed a ferarri. Why still hang on to the bullock cart ? Maybe he doesnt know how to drive a Ferrari :moon: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaurav Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 About the highlighted part, i find it curiously funny. Porn is a fantasy, in marriage you get real sex. Once I am getting sex, there is absolutely zero reason to see porn, for the real deal is way sweeter. Well that is your view and your choice. I don't see anything wrong with looking at pretty pictures of chicks. Judging by your attitude you probably ain't gettign the "real deal" plus you are not doing porn either :D In my case I am getting the real deal REGULARLY + looking at soft porn :finger: :hysterical: Not to mention that porn can be so educational :haha: I don't see why someone cannot have fantasies when they are married? It's completely natural and healthy! If you are involved with someone and you still watch porn, there's something messed up there- unless its a shared activity that gets the kink in your marriage going. I think there is something messed up with you as your are trying to suppress the inbuilt need in us to spill our seeds :hysterical: Don't fight so hard with mother nature! My sex life is probably more healthy than anyone on this forum so thanks for the concern :giggle: On the other hand I am willing to give tips to upcoming virgins on this forum :hysterical: But whatever, i find porn to be juvenile and once you taste the real honey, i don't see how one can even get aroused by digital honey again. Unless you are gay I don't see how any man would not get aroused by photos of hot chicks :finger: Its like a man who only knew a bullock cart as mode of transport has just been handed a ferarri. Why still hang on to the bullock cart ? Just because you ride a Ferrari does not mean that you cannot appreciate the ride of a bullock cart! I ride a Ferrari regularly and sometimes take the bullock cart for a spin :hysterical: If you don't like it then that is fair enough but me and my partner are perfectly happy so deal with it :hatsoff: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandtest Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 What has marriage got to do with porn ?!? eh ? Porn is a fantasy, in marriage you get real sex. You are answering your own question. This fantasy is used to enhance and sustain your daily "routine". And it's the BEST gift of science to mankind if your "Ardhangini" (other half) is involved in all these......:giggle::D:cantstop: Once I am getting sex, there is absolutely zero reason to see porn, I guess this you are saying, beacuse you have not got that "three" letter thing yet. Once you get "enlightened" in this field through practical, you will see there is a reason. Btw...I think you need to read Kamasutra here,which you were once offerring me. It asks you for various methods to get initiated and to keep going, forever. Probably Internet was not discovered during the time of Vatsyayana, otherwise you would have seen Kamasutra instructing the human race to use Pondy for sustaining healthy sexual life.:D But whatever, i find porn to be juvenile and once you taste the real honey There you go, first go and get married, then you will know. Things will get more clear as time passes.....:haha: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bongosamaj Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Judging by your attitude you probably ain't gettign the "real deal"HA! Well..nevermind, i am not into comparing my sex-life with others. As the saying goes- you brag about it when you don't get any. But my point is, i can't understand why someone would LOOK at porn when they have the option to GETTING SOME REAL ACTION. but hey, if it floats your boat, carry on. To me, its just silly and juvenile, thats all. Btw...I think you need to read Kamasutra here,which you were once offerring me. It asks you for various methods to get initiated and to keep going, forever.Son, Kama sutra is about action. Not sitting in front of a screen whacking off. And believe me when i tell you that there isnt anything in the Kama sutra or Tantra that you can teach moi. first go and get married, then you will know.I don't have to get married to know what serious relationship life feels like. Anyways, i still find it rather juvenile and childish not to out-grow porn. I'd much rather do it with a chick than watch some random chick on the net and tbh, porn is no place to be taking pointers for the bedroom. Thats again, juvenile. But hey, whatever floats your boat. I simply don't see the need for porn when i have the option of getting some from a real chick. Its just that simple, really. My sex life is probably more healthy than anyone on this forum so thanks for the concern :giggle:LOL. Arranged married guy boasting about sex life. Now thats a first. LOL. Sure, hey if thinking that floats your boat, go for it. I just see porn as something adolescents would dabble in or if you are single- but if you got a partner and you still need porn to 'get it on' between you two or give you pointers, its my opinion that you need to work on the 'chemistry' between you two and get creative in the bedroom rather than being a blind copycat of stuff that a 15 year old can figure out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaurav Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 HA! Well..nevermind, i am not into comparing my sex-life with others. As the saying goes- you brag about it when you don't get any. Yeah ok:hysterical: If that makes you feel better. For the record I am not into comparing anything either. Just having a discussion. LOL. Arranged married guy boasting about sex life. Now thats a first. LOL. No that is a second :hysterical: The first is you quoting wrong persons post. You really think that someone like me would even consider arranged marriage with some clueless chick? Pleazeeeee Bongo man go easy on the bongo :giggle: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bongosamaj Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Unless you are gay I don't see how any man would not get aroused by photos of hot chicks And unless you are seriously messed in the head, i don't see why you'd be trying to get yourself aroused with photos of hot chicks when you can get the real deal. That is like going to the corn-flakes counter when the biriyani counter is right next to it and both are free. :confused_smile: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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