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Guest dada_rocks
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I'm only going off experience and what my brother who is in India right now has been telling me. Like when one of the neighbours' daughters was kissing her boyfriend there was an uproar in our neighbourhood and everyone was talking about it. About how my brother tried to get some of the women we know to come to a club in Kolkata but was refused because they didn't want to be seen like that.
Which Kolkata ur brother is living in, in my experience gals from Kolkataa are most liberal in India.. There will be uproar if u kiss openely anywhere..Take her to Ravindra-talab and there won't be any fuss, or Maidan or Victoria palace..
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Which Kolkata ur brother is living in, in my experience gals from Kolkataa are most liberal in India.. There will be uproar if u kiss openely anywhere..Take her to Ravindra-talab and there won't be any fuss, or Maidan or Victoria palace..
Entally near Sealdah and I don't think my brother would lie to me.
Guest dada_rocks
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Sealdah is conservative part kind of chol people there do carry morality chip on their shoulder.. Tell ur brother to take that girl to places I mentioend , those are cheap places though if he wants to remain in posh area then Salt Lake city is the way to go. I can assure u, u can kiss in broad day-light noone is going to hound you there.. Happy kissing foray:two_thumbs_up:

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I don't think there's anything tarty or slutty about that' date=' let them wear what they want to wear, but I can't see the same thing happening in India.[/quote'] Yep. Judging by the increasing number of rape cases which occur in Indian cities on a daily basis (and these are just the reported ones) i can understand why girls wouldn't want to wear skimpy outfits. I remember reading a story on this by India Today back in '05. They interviewed police officers and the responses were something along the lines of; "If the women dress like that, they deserve to get raped". With that kind of neanderthal mentality existing in modern day Indian society, why should women put themselves at risk ? Besides, Indian girls just don't have the bodies to pull off something like a tight dress or a miniskirt.
Guest dada_rocks
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Yep. Judging by the increasing number of rape cases which occur in Indian cities on a daily basis (and these are just the reported ones) i can understand why girls wouldn't want to wear skimpy outfits. I remember reading a story on this by India Today back in '05. They interviewed police officers and the responses were something along the lines of; "If the women dress like that' date= they deserve to get raped". With that kind of neanderthal mentality existing in modern day Indian society, why should women put themselves at risk ? Besides, Indian girls just don't have the bodies to pull off something like a tight dress or a miniskirt.
I too happend to read that report and am sorry to say u are distorting their opinion. Qualifying word was not "deserve", it was when woman dress like that no. of rape cases go up. They were just reporting the correlation not justifying the act.
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Yep. Judging by the increasing number of rape cases which occur in Indian cities on a daily basis (and these are just the reported ones) i can understand why girls wouldn't want to wear skimpy outfits. I remember reading a story on this by India Today back in '05. They interviewed police officers and the responses were something along the lines of; "If the women dress like that, they deserve to get raped". With that kind of neanderthal mentality existing in modern day Indian society, why should women put themselves at risk ? Besides, Indian girls just don't have the bodies to pull off something like a tight dress or a miniskirt.
Dont they? Yet another Indian who goes abroad and takes a liking to the white women are you? Why do some Indian men feel this way. A couple of years ago a white English friend came with me to India and was impressed by how attractive Indian women are. "I'll never look at a white woman again" were his exact words.
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Dont they? Yet another Indian who goes abroad and takes a liking to the white women are you? Why do some Indian men feel this way. A couple of years ago a white English friend came with me to India and was impressed by how attractive Indian women are. "I'll never look at a white woman again" were his exact words.
Didn't you say you haven't been to India in nearly 10 years?
I was talking to my brother who is currently over in India right now and he says that I wouldn't recognise it as I haven't been in ten years. Is it true that people are turning away from religion? If it is then this a good thing. Religion has been the cause of so many problems in India. The less religion and superstition there is the better.
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Very few Indian girls could last that long..... As for wearing short clothes....a lot of Indian girls would do it just to be in the spotlight on tv... Besides firangs dancing here are a novelty...Indians they watch 24/7 on various shows on tv.

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Dont they? Yet another Indian who goes abroad and takes a liking to the white women are you? Why do some Indian men feel this way.
White, black, yellow, brown or purple, i couldn't give a damn about race/ethnicity, etc. A good looking woman is a good looking woman. My comments are just based on my own observations - you don't have to take them seriously. After all, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder; what works for some, doesn't work for others.
Guest dada_rocks
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DR ' date=' what happened to Bongosamaj ? Was he banned or something ?[/quote'] No idea he was quite sedate by his CC standard so don't see why will anyone ban him..I guess he is looking for face-change and is amongst us right now posting .. has not taken off burqua yet will do soon :giggle:
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Why is liking fair considered bad...too much political correctness everywhere. As long as there is no discriminaton based on colour people should not be forced to be politically correct all the time. I like fair girls (not as a rule...bips is the hottest) and darker guys...to hell with political correctness. I won't discriminate ever... ...but please don't tell me what to like or dislike.

Guest dada_rocks
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maggot u are skirting Gambo's revelation.. so in one thread ur claim is u have not viisted india in ten years and in anothert thread u visited 2 years back.. So why this discrepancy does it have sthg to do with cc/bongo connection.. Just wondering why wud u lie like that otherwise..:cantstop:

Guest dada_rocks
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Why is liking fair considered bad...too much political correctness everywhere. As long as there is no discriminaton based on colour people should not be forced to be politically correct all the time. I like fair girls (not as a rule...bips is the hottest) and darker guys...to hell with political correctness. I won't discriminate ever... ...but please don't tell me what to like or dislike.
Issue is calling people blanket ugly just because they are dark complexioned..
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maggot u are skirting Gambo's revelation.. so in one thread ur claim is u have not viisted india in ten years and in anothert thread u visited 2 years back.. So why this discrepancy does it have sthg to do with cc/bongo connection.. Just wondering why wud u lie like that otherwise..:cantstop:
Where did I say I'd visited India two years ago? I haven't been to India since 1997. Also what is Gambo's revelation?
Guest dada_rocks
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Dont they? Yet another Indian who goes abroad and takes a liking to the white women are you? Why do some Indian men feel this way. A couple of years ago a white English friend came with me to India and was impressed by how attractive Indian women are. "I'll never look at a white woman again" were his exact words.
If oxford dictionary has not updated meaning of couple to >=10 then it sounds like u visited India 2 years back..:haha:
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If oxford dictionary has not updated meaning of couple to >=10 then it sounds like u visited India 2 years back..:haha:
Fair enough, but it was my mistake though. Couple in the English language does mean two but it can also mean, 'a few'. That visit where my friend came with me was the same one I was talking about before, 1997. You caught me out, through my poor use of English. It wasn't an outright lie.
Guest dada_rocks
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Couple certianly is not used in things beyond decade old..:cantstop:

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