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Is sex overrated?


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It ia pretty silly to believe that sex before marriage leads to increase in divorce.A In most cases a woman who chooses to have premarital ex is probably more liberated in mind and also more independent.This kind of woman is less likely to take crap in marriage .She is also more likely to end the marriage if she is financially independent. A man may also be more inclined to leave a bad marriage if his wife is not completely dependent on him. >>>>>How can you feel any deep connection being with so many people? Most often it is not about emotions.More comfortable with some one you care about. While it may be a good plan to wait for the right person...don't believe that two people will be happy ever after because they were each other's first.A happy and long lasting marriage needs a lot more than that.
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Feelings? Emotional connections? Guys, feelings are what women have, they come from their ovaries. And who the hell cares about the women they have sex with these days?
Sex is all about emptional connects. You dont know what you are missing. From the first glance, to falling asleep in each other's arm to waking up next to each other next morning, all are part of love making
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That many housewives have hellish lives is bs. Everyone I know who is married is happy in arranged marriage. Just take example of Sachin' date=' VVS, Dravid, some would consider them losers for being virgins until marriage. I dont, they have normal family lives. Then take example of bollywood/hollywood stars that had sex before marriage. Almost all of them have had divorces. One kid living with one parent another with the other etc. No real faily life. Im not saying it happens to everyone but it is much more likely this way. makes a person more likely to cheat.[/quote'] Dude how on earth can you look at a celebrity and just conclude their marriage is happy? for all you know they are lots of fight, abuse, beating going on. Some women who go for arrange marriage are submissive. There is a lot of family involvement and pressure, so the decision to split is not easy to take no matter how wrong the marriage is. One who cannot decide whom to marry and their parents chose their partners, will also not decide when to seperate until their parents consent. Can you show me data to conclude that its more likely if its a love marriage? There are 0% divorces in villages. but there are lots of instance of domestic abuse, mistreatment. Wonder why there are still no divorces Wherever women are enpowered they do not take abuse and mistreatment lying down. Once a woman is independent she does not need a guy to support her. these women can also afford divorces. a women who has led a sheltered life, who has no source of income, and her parents wont have her back, plus she has children to support. Can such a women go for divorce? Dont mistake compromise for happiness BTW an outsider can mostly never tell when a marriage is unhappy. There are great men in the outside world who have been domestic abusers and no one knew till their wives mustered up courage to complain There are many things wrong in this land which claims to worship women. And surprisingly, all of them somehow are things which make women compromise. Women are made to adhere to dress codes to protect our culture. But no restrictions on youth who go around molesting and eve-teasing women. Hue and cry when a porn video is shown. No such when women are raped almost everyday. A divorcee women is looked down uppn, so is a widow. Women cannot come home late as its not safe because of evil men roaming aroud. So who gets locked at home? The men or the women? Working women are supposed to manage home and children both but she does not dare earn more that the men in order to protect his fragile ego. In such an atmosphere, yes divorces are pretty rare in India
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Dude how on earth can you look at a celebrity and just conclude their marriage is happy? for all you know they are lots of fight, abuse, beating going on. Some women who go for arrange marriage are submissive. There is a lot of family involvement and pressure, so the decision to split is not easy to take no matter how wrong the marriage is. One who cannot decide whom to marry and their parents chose their partners, will also not decide when to seperate until their parents consent. Can you show me data to conclude that its more likely if its a love marriage? There are 0% divorces in villages. but there are lots of instance of domestic abuse, mistreatment. Wonder why there are still no divorces Wherever women are enpowered they do not take abuse and mistreatment lying down. Once a woman is independent she does not need a guy to support her. these women can also afford divorces. a women who has led a sheltered life, who has no source of income, and her parents wont have her back, plus she has children to support. Can such a women go for divorce? Dont mistake compromise for happiness BTW an outsider can mostly never tell when a marriage is unhappy. There are great men in the outside world who have been domestic abusers and no one knew till their wives mustered up courage to complain There are many things wrong in this land which claims to worship women. And surprisingly, all of them somehow are things which make women compromise. Women are made to adhere to dress codes to protect our culture. But no restrictions on youth who go around molesting and eve-teasing women. Hue and cry when a porn video is shown. No such when women are raped almost everyday. A divorcee women is looked down uppn, so is a widow. Women cannot come home late as its not safe because of evil men roaming aroud. So who gets locked at home? The men or the women? Working women are supposed to manage home and children both but she does not dare earn more that the men in order to protect his fragile ego. In such an atmosphere, yes divorces are pretty rare in India
Dude, you becoming a feminist? Half of that post reeks of that, no offense. Munshi Premchand said it best in one of his stories, and I paraphrase - Men and women have this weird quagmire. If a man develops the classical female traits he is deemed as a saint. (He was talking about patience, virtuousity, religious nature, family values etc). However when the women develops the classical male traits she becomes a philanderer and worse. (He was hinting at aggression, selfish drives etc). Not gonna make this a sexist debate here but working woman are supposed to manage home and kids? Really? Those days are long gone. Also whats with divorce rates being lower in villages equating itself to women being submissive?? Maybe there is something right happening in villages that larger towns have missed out on? People work hard, they dont get caught up in the rat race. Family values are held important. Society in general comes together to help each other out. Daughter-in-laws dont hate the family of the groom, and the son-in-law does not dispise his in-laws either. Maybe we can learn from villages perhaps and not neccessarily judge them? What you are very right about is that marriages are tricky and nobody knows what goes wrong between two people, aside from the two people. Where you are wrong though is to portray women with flying colours. Those days are long gone dude. Lets get real. xxxx
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Fapping is overrated..
No its not. :beee: (I wanted to substitute your favorite smiley here but this topic scares me a bit lol) Was reading George Clooney's interview in Rolling Stones recently. He was asked to finish the sentence - Fapping is....his fill in the blanks was "neccessary". Now unless you hate Clooney of course :girly1:
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The important question in modern times is if it is possible for souls to have sex after death? I always wonder how the stupid jihadis who kill themselves in suicide bombings without getting laid get around to dicking 72 virgins without having one in material form that can go hard and work? B->:finger::hysterical::haha:
What happens to female Jihadis? Do they get dicked by 72 Male virgins? :hmmm:
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