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I iz a daddy (A princess is born)!!!!


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****... getting engaged next month.. am all jittery and buttery inside... and I login to ICF to see this thread... me? A father? The last thing I imagined myself to be... Congrats all here... make no mistake I love babies... I have a nephew of mine just born whom I love ardently... But just can't imagine myself as a parent.. ****... any new fathers who overcame their fears can pls guide me? I know for sure a little tot is certainly atleast 2 years away but just want to overcome this asap...

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****... getting engaged next month.. am all jittery and buttery inside... and I login to ICF to see this thread... me? A father? The last thing I imagined myself to be... Congrats all here... make no mistake I love babies... I have a nephew of mine just born whom I love ardently... But just can't imagine myself as a parent.. ****... any new fathers who overcame their fears can pls guide me? I know for sure a little tot is certainly atleast 2 years away but just want to overcome this asap...
Why are you scared of babiez :hmmm:
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Why are you scared of babiez :hmmm:
Am scared about this whole business of settling down.... Not that am a party animal or anything... nor that I bring a new girl home every weekend... but just that the concept of being a family man... how it can take away the freedom I've so long cherished a bachelor, is giving me the creepies... I've utmost respect for the institution called marriage and grihastha.. but just don't know how to prepare for it.. positively freaked out...
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Am scared about this whole business of settling down.... Not that am a party animal or anything... nor that I bring a new girl home every weekend... but just that the concept of being a family man... how it can take away the freedom I've so long cherished a bachelor, is giving me the creepies... I've utmost respect for the institution called marriage and grihastha.. but just don't know how to prepare for it.. positively freaked out...
I assume yours is gonna be an arranged marriage. Did you spend some time (at least an hr/day over a month) with your fiance yet (on phone, in skin)? :hmmm:
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Am scared about this whole business of settling down.... Not that am a party animal or anything... nor that I bring a new girl home every weekend... but just that the concept of being a family man... how it can take away the freedom I've so long cherished a bachelor, is giving me the creepies... I've utmost respect for the institution called marriage and grihastha.. but just don't know how to prepare for it.. positively freaked out...
Having a baby is the most wonderful thing that will ever happen to you.There is nothing more precious than that bundle of joy. And the good news is that you are a guy.You will get to have fun making the baby(I hope she does too:--D)....most likely won't put on weight (unless you decide to show extra solidarity with wife)and look like a cow ....and the biggest advantage....you will get a baby without having to bear with any pain.Men have also not been known to suffer from postpartum depression .Have fun....and be nice to the woman who makes a baby for you from her bones and blood and a bit of you.Good luck!
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I assume yours is gonna be an arranged marriage. Did you spend some time (at least an hr/day over a month) with your fiance yet (on phone' date=' in skin)? :hmmm:[/quote'] You are right on the dot... I am no virgin... (hehe.. figuratively at least).. have had my share of relationships in the past... but that were all when the hormones raged hard within... but now.. I find myself in a situation where I'm forced into a relationship... Make no mistake... there is hardly a fault I can find in the girl.. pious.. conservative.. same background as mine... educated.. just at a loss to really take this plunge... and it's kind of wierd with your parents acting as cheerleaders.. :|
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