Bongosamaj Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 My answer was strictly in terms of India and Indians. Ah yes. And quite true. But then again, India and Indian people's propensity to follow meaningless rituals and enshrine them as something meaningful is legendary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bongosamaj Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Agree with [1]. on [2], more than society, it is the peer pressure. If most of your friends settle down, you will feel the need for a companion, as all your friends are busy with their wives. Man's gotta to have some support system. Else we will end up psychos or serial killers. If your friends are your support system, then you will feel the pinch, when they are not available. Unless you find a circle of friends that don't believe in marriages and they will be there for you all thru your life. Or you could just go out and make some more new friends. Is that so effing hard to do ? :cantstop: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffee_rules Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Or you could just go out and make some more new friends. Is that so effing hard to do ? :cantstop: It's hard to meet new friends that match your wavelength. Try living beyond 30 to know how effing hard it is to make new friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bongosamaj Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 It's hard to meet new friends that match your wavelength. Try living beyond 30 to know how effing hard it is to make new friends. Its all about attitude dude. Make friends with likeminded people, not on some arbitary basis on age or class or education. There are a few 30 year olds i know who are single, have friends ranging from the age of 20 to 70 and don't have any social problems. Plus the culture where i live isn't anti-social like India, where once you get married, you bid farewell to your friends and dance to the tune of sasuraal. All it means here is instead of hanging out three times a week with your friends, you do it twice and every now and again your missus comes out to hang out with your buddies as well. making friends is never hard- at any age or any walk in life, if you know how to approach people and treat them as equals. I have a friend who is 2 yrs older than my dad- we worked together and then we kept in touch after we changed jobs. He doesn't treat me as a 'son' and i don't treat him as a 'father', despite the age difference. he is my friend, no different than my same-aged friends or younger ones. However, i find Indians are quite age-concious about friendships and social interctions, which is very silly really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoda Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 don't marry if you will be spoiling someone's life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gambit Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 In India, it's a certificate to get society's implicit permission to live together and have kids. And of course, there is the family angle. Extended family and aunties and uncles think that if you aren't married by the time you are 30+, there is something wrong with you. varun, would have agree to an arranged marriage if it came to that, bina test drive that is ;) ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bongosamaj Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 don't marry if you will be spoiling someone's life. :haha::haha: I am sure there are many people who get married explicitly with the intention of spoiling someone's life. and they really deserve it too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
varun Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 In India, it's a certificate to get society's implicit permission to live together and have kids. And of course, there is the family angle. Extended family and aunties and uncles think that if you aren't married by the time you are 30+, there is something wrong with you. varun, would have agree to an arranged marriage if it came to that, bina test drive that is ;) ? :cantstop: Physical compatibility is very important for me.. so Nope :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holysmoke Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 good luck Varun :hysterical: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoda Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 :cantstop: Physical compatibility is very important for me.. so Nope :P Nice tits, decent height, good curves, pretty face - shouldn't take more than 2 mins to figure that out. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineleg Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Err...i think varun is saying that he needs to test drive before signing on the dotted line Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
varun Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 Err...i think varun is saying that he needs to test drive before signing on the dotted line Jup.. i'm sure she'd want a test ride too :haha: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Nice tits' date=' decent height, good curves, pretty face - shouldn't take more than 2 mins to figure that out. [/quote'] So essentially it all boils down to t*ts..:hysterical: All juniors please take notes from Yoda's sermon here :mama: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaurav Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Varun don't ever have an arranged marriage :mama: You will remember my words later on :giggle: Marriage is like gambling but with arranged marriage the cards are heavily stacked up against you :wilted_rose::hysterical: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoda Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Err...i think varun is saying that he needs to test drive before signing on the dotted line well, if you want to drive a new car from india, you probably have to bring it home before you can drive it. used cars (from india or amreeka) of course are a different story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandrake Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 well, if you want to drive a new car from india, you probably have to bring it home before you can drive it. used cars (from india or amreeka) of course are a different story. maintenance cost would be a criteria too methinks:haha: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Outsider Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 Marriage is like gambling but with arranged marriage the cards are heavily stacked up against you :wilted_rose::hysterical: More like playing blind even after the last bet.:haha: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurker Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 maintenance cost would be a criteria too methinks:haha: This website has started to look more like kbb.com now.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineleg Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 maintenance cost would be a criteria too methinks:haha: More like playing blind even after the last bet.:haha: Varun probably wants the chinks to be ironed out before he drives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
varun Posted October 2, 2007 Author Share Posted October 2, 2007 :haha: I might as well rename this thread to be "the double entendre thread" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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