Guest Gunner Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Very nice statement :thumbs_up: Have you ever had sex?
Guest Gunner Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 What I find particularly wonderful about this thread is the number of virgins we have on ICF. Who don't know anything about sex but have "opinions".
Sir john Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 It is absolutely fine finey:) I was only replying to flamy that love can exist withwithout sex. and I think he would also agree:) for some time i think.:bubblegum:
rkt.india Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 All that sounds good in a yashraj film with "Hakla" being the nice Indian lover who wouldn't touch his GF till after marriage. It is a misinterpretation and again a part of social programming that having sex will make your relationship about sex and the love will somehow disappear. In that case how will things change after marriage ? And no love isn't beyond sexual elements. Sexual elements form a part of the language of love. Sex is overrated in all its hype but it is still a human need which gives pleasure. And I don't know why society must be so hung on this most basic act of all mammals to give pleasure to their partners Love has different forms....and there are many relations which you can relate to love...love cannot be a sex....sex cannot be related to love...No one loves prostitutes, but still people do sex with them...Everyone loves their parents, brothers, sisters and still you cannot do sex with them... Problem is you are taking love in only one sense of a boyfriend and girlfriend...and whatever it is even if you are talking in terms of bf/gf, it must come at the last in anyone's thoughts if he or she claims to be in love....otherwise everything is lust now a days Sex is something different....sex is lust, not love...Love means care for someone you love, giving happines to your love done and that person can be anyone in the world.........
IKnowU Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 .Everyone loves their parents, brothers, sisters and still you cannot do sex with them... . :nervous:
Gunner_Mania Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 why does it matter to 'you' whether or not it is ok to somebody else or not. If you think its ok only if society thinks its ok then society is making your decisions for you. It is purely an individual's choice whether or not it is ok for them or not and whether or not they are comfortable with it.
diegovegaz Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 really impressed by ravishingravi's views
DomainK Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 why does it matter to 'you' whether or not it is ok to somebody else or not. If you think its ok only if society thinks its ok then society is making your decisions for you. It is purely an individual's choice whether or not it is ok for them or not and whether or not they are comfortable with it. Precisely. It's an individual choice. If you think it's morally wrong, dont do it. But dont force your individual choices on others and dont judge people by that.
Roshanrocks Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 As long as maximum number of guys in the indian society want only a virgin as a wife , pre-maritla sex is NOT ok :finger: If u think pre-marital sex is ok... then dont go around asking women if they are virgins while lookin for a wife :finger: bleddy hypocrites
Dark Warrior Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I guess its OK? Ab Horny ko kaun taal sakta hai. :haha::haha:
shubham45 Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 I guess its OK? Ab Horny ko kaun taal sakta hai. lol . i think is haram as desi said ....... just view shivani s live in relationship wala thread i have given my opinion about the topic on dat .....
flamy Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 so does the special woman the one loves' date=' become less special if she is unable to haveperform sex due to some reason?[/quote'] dude, if she is unable to have sex, just leave her :D nah, the point I was getting at was about how people talk about great love etc. without even getting to sex at least one time... "oh, i love her, i don't want sex from her." - i've heard too many of my friends say this bs. erm... if you aint gonna tap her, she is gonna find someone else to do the tapping. she is human too. she has needs. platonic love is not romance. platonic love is for friends and family.
Guest Gunner Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 dude, if she is unable to have sex, just leave her :D nah, the point I was getting at was about how people talk about great love etc. without even getting to sex at least one time... "oh, i love her, i don't want sex from her." - i've heard too many of my friends say this bs. erm... if you aint gonna tap her, she is gonna find someone else to do the tapping. she is human too. she has needs. platonic love is not romance. platonic love is for friends and family. Atleast one guy on this thread who knows vaat he is talking about, though he ain't had any for sometime. :haha::haha:
vaibhav_delhi Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 dude' date= if she is unable to have sex, just leave her :D nah, the point I was getting at was about how people talk about great love etc. without even getting to sex at least one time... "oh, i love her, i don't want sex from her." - i've heard too many of my friends say this bs. erm... if you aint gonna tap her, she is gonna find someone else to do the tapping. she is human too. she has needs. platonic love is not romance. platonic love is for friends and family. lol. well for me personally, love and sex are unrelated. Although I am all for premarital sex. sex is only for physical and momentary pleasure. And as ravisingh said, sex is overrated. love is more profound.
flamy Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Atleast one guy on this thread who knows vaat he is talking about' date=' though he ain't had any for sometime. :haha::haha:[/quote'] :finger: :((
flamy Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 lol. well for me personally, love and sex are unrelated. Although I am all for premarital sex. sex is only for physical and momentary pleasure. And as ravisingh said, sex is overrated. love is more profound. u obviously havent heard of enlightened sex :D
Desi Cartman Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 ok here is another question , if sex is not ok then is oral sex still ok ?
Nova Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 ok here is another question ' date=' if sex is not ok then is oral sex still ok ?[/quote'] Hands over mike to Bill Clinton. :sherlock: I want to say one thing to the American people. I want you to listen to me. I'm going to say this again: I did not have sexual relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky. I never told anybody to lie, not a single time; never. These allegations are false. And I need to go back to work for the American people. Thank you. :D
The Outsider Posted November 17, 2010 Posted November 17, 2010 Sex is usually okay, at the very least. And what's with these Grahshobha threads on ICF?
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