JeffThommo_fan Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Normally, in day-to-day we always say that we guys shud not hurt girls and girls are more emotional and we shud not play with their emotions. Blah Blah Blah. But somehow, I feel that guys are actually more emotional than girls in todays life. I have seen many a times, that girl now-a-days have this kind of mentality- ''boys uses girls for fun so why should we lack behind. We are also going to play around with boys''. What's your take on this?
CSK Fan Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 The girls on this site are definitely more stable than the emotional guys
Yoda-esque Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 The girls on this site are definitely more stable than the emotional guys +1
Lurker Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 The girls on this site are definitely more stable than the emotional guys :hysterical::hysterical: Generally speaking though, girls are lot more emotional and romantic than guys. Guys tend to portray a bit of victim mentality while girls tend to suffer in silence. That being said girls are also lot more practical than guys. If things dont go her way, and she doesnt see a future much, she would pull the chord. So in that sense guys have a deeper sense of loyalty than girls who may change based on family pressure, biological clock and every one of their friends getting married.
f.b.m Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 I thought it was girls who were into gender stereotypes :dontknow:
JeffThommo_fan Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 :hysterical::hysterical: Generally speaking though, girls are lot more emotional and romantic than guys. Guys tend to portray a bit of victim mentality while girls tend to suffer in silence. That being said girls are also lot more practical than guys. If things dont go her way, and she doesnt see a future much, she would pull the chord. So in that sense guys have a deeper sense of loyalty than girls who may change based on family pressure, biological clock and every one of their friends getting married. That's your way of seeing it. And one more thing, it might have something to do with there is difference between girls from smaller cities or bigger cities. Thats what I feel
Mariyam Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Girls have emotions? Wonder what makes you say that? A woman boss? A longish overtime?
nikred Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Wonder what makes you say that? A woman boss? A longish overtime? Female bosses are a nightmare. :nervous:
JeffThommo_fan Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 Female bosses are a nightmare. :nervous: Girl-Friends on higher posts than us are much better than girl-friends on equal posts to us. Or either they should be on the lower posts to us
CSK Fan Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Girl-Friends on higher posts than us are much better than girl-friends on equal posts to us. Or either they should be on the lower posts to us Oh no, you dont want to go there, you really dont, trust me
JeffThommo_fan Posted November 25, 2011 Author Posted November 25, 2011 Oh no' date=' you dont want to go there, you really dont, trust me[/quote'] What happen buddy?? Have I touched some sensitive nerve of yours unknowingly :nervous:
Rajiv Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 She is x-dallas cheerleader, I happen to receive the email accidentally, this is a while back ======================= From: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx Date: Fri, XXXXXOct XXXXXXXXxx 17:10:38 To: Subject: RE: This is what happening to me XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXxx, As I have told you before, I will never intentionally try and hurt you. What I am doing now as a last resort is setting boundaries on how much you can hurt me, control me, and emotional abuse me. I will not be a part of it any longer as much as I have the power to control that. I will not take your jealous accusations and your emotional abuse. The exact same things you wrote below happen to a person when being emotional abused. As I have said before, until you are willing to participate in getting professional help for our marriage we will never get better. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX -----Original Message----- From: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx] Sent: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx 4:23 PM To: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx Subject: This is what happening to me XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXxx, Your silent treatments are causing hugh damage to me. Maybe that is what you want? I have attached this artical for you to read so you clearly see what pain your actions are having. Starts here: Probably at one time or another you have been either on the giving or receiving end of a silent treatment, otherwise known as the cold shoulder. What you probably didn't realize is that the silent treatment is a form of ostracism. When someone is ostracized it affects the part of their brain called the anterior cingulate cortex. Do you know what the anterior cingulate cortex does? The anterior cingulate cortex is the part of the brain that detects pain. When you give someone the silent treatment you are causing that person physical pain. Simply by ignoring someone else's existence you can inflict pain on them. This is what the ever popular "time out" with a child is so effective. The child feels ostracized, therefore is feeling pain even though no physical pain was inflicted on them, and therefore they want to behave so they don't have to feel that way again. The silent treatment can be a very destructive behavior when it involves personal relationships. Let's say with a husband and wife for instance. The silent treatment breeds bitterness on both ends and it borders on emotional abuse. I'm not making that up to be dramatic. That's what "they" say. Cooling Off And Ostracizing Are Two Very Different Things Let's not confuse the silent treatment with something known as "the cooling off period". The cooling off period is where one person is so angry or disgusted by the other person that they just cannot deal with the situation in that state need time to calm down before they begin to speak to this person. That's fine and actually that's probably better than sitting and screaming at each other. There is a big difference between taking some time to cool down and outright ignoring the existence of the other person. The silent treatment would be more along the lines of you doing something that pisses someone off, they clue you in on it (or not), and then they don't speak to you, acknowledge you or even make eye contact with you for sometimes days. No good. To me, this is a form of torture. Nothing positive comes from this type of behavior. What makes more sense.blowing up about something, cooling off a little and then talking about how to resolve it OR not blowing up about something, staying completely pissed and not doing anything to help resolve the situation? If you said the latter. you're a dick. When someone is administering the silent treatment they are trying to show that they are dominant over you. The silent treatment (when it becomes a mutual one) is a power struggle in pain tolerance.whomever the winner is, cares less. When You Are On The Receiving End Of The Silent Treatment It's interesting to me that research has shown that woman and men respond to the silent treatment very differently. Woman who are on the receiving end of the silent treatment seem to try anything in their power to win back their good grace with the ostracize where men.don't. They just deal with it. But what exactly are the men just dealing with and the woman trying to avoid? The emotional pain associated with being ostracized. Those who have been treated to the silent treatment have reported as sense of loss, of not belonging, of lower self-esteem and a feeling of unworthiness. All of these feelings are the result of someone just not acknowledging them or ignoring them. I find that pretty interesting. I can say that I honestly don't ever remember giving someone the silent treatment.not anyone that it would matter to anyway. I don't think I have it in me to do that to someone. Why you ask? Because I've had it done to me, I know what it feels like and it totally sucks. I'm more the type of person that would like to blow up about something, probably say some things I don't really mean, apologize for saying the things I don't really mean and then move towards resolution. But hey.that's just me. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx
Lurker Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Girls have emotions? Kahani sunane ka time bandhu :cheer::cheer: You arent the kind who will make a statement to troll, so whats behind the falsafa?
Stuge Posted November 25, 2011 Posted November 25, 2011 Posting in the right thread now . I've no personal experience so I can't say ,but from the forums point of view above statement is very debatable .
JeffThommo_fan Posted November 25, 2011 Author Posted November 25, 2011 Posting in the right thread now . I've no personal experience so I can't say ,but from the forums point of view above statement is very debatable . Debate or listening to people's experiences is always great
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