bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Ok Bfan.....i will not wear my pants below my hips but I would like to wear the mini skirt..... i hav no problem with that just put a pic of that here :D on a serious note: children learn from there parents/ their behaviour, dressing, talking style, table manner everything. so if u curse in front of ur child nd expect them to be well mannered nd beat em for doing wat u do everyday in front of em is abusing nd also these things can harm em in the long run.
beetle Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 my parents used positive motivation promising me to buy new video game or something like that if I came 1st/2nd in class.worked like a charm It works for big goals.... I tried it too early and it was used against me.......:(( What will I get if i finish my vegetables?.....what will I get if I find the remote......and so on.
beetle Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 i hav no problem with that just put a pic of that here :D on a serious note: children learn from there parents/ their behaviour, dressing, talking style, table manner everything. so if u curse in front of ur child nd expect them to be well mannered nd beat em for doing wat u do everyday in front of em is abusing nd also these things can harm em in the long run. How many children do you have B fan?:--D
Ram Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 No parent hits their child to physically hurt them. Sometimes kids, especially the really mischievous ones, need shock therapy to tell who is boss. And you cant hope to talk sense into a 2-3 year old and hope to get a response everytime. Corporal punishment is definitely effective under those circumstances.
bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 It works for big goals.... I tried it too early and it was used against me.......:(( What will I get if i finish my vegetables?.....what will I get if I find the remote......and so on. sumtimes smallest things r too big to children than u can ever think of. just let em play 10 mins more than the actual play time or let em watch a cartoon movie sacrificing ur sas bahu serial one day. u can make em do lots of things
bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 How many children do you have B fan?:--D i am 21 :D but both my parents r service holders. i have 1 younger sister nd 2 brothers. nd i actually looked after 2 youngest brothers most of the time. i knw u wont bliv me but i am realy good at child handling nd children really like me if i spend time wiv em.
beetle Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 sumtimes smallest things r too big to children than u can ever think of. just let em play 10 mins more than the actual play time or let em watch a cartoon movie sacrificing ur sas bahu serial one day. u can make em do lots of things I don't watch saas bahu seriels...sirf cricket dekhti thi...now it is a distant dream.........Chota bheem rules :rock:
beetle Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 i am 21 :D but both my parents r service holders. i have 1 younger sister nd 2 brothers. nd i actually looked after 2 youngest brothers most of the time. i knw u wont bliv me but i am realy good at child handling nd children really like me if i spend time wiv em. Ok ...I believe you. If you like spending time with children....you should take up some profession that involves interaction with them. There are so few people who have the patience and love for it.:icflove:
bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Ok ...I believe you. If you like spending time with children....you should take up some profession that involves interaction with them. There are so few people who have the patience and love for it.:icflove: i'm alright wiv my web developing job
beetle Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 i'm alright wiv my web developing job :embarrassed: darr gaya....:haha:
bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 darr gaya....:haha: not really. i'm getting married next year. planning to have kids wen i'm 25. so too late to start a new career nd experimenting. nd its not like i dont hav passion for wat i do
bulbul Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 I think parents of older kids should use the threat of embarrassment as punishment. mom.....shut the computer or I will go out in your sister's miniskirt. dad...Go study or I will wear my pants below the hips like you. what if son decieded how his Dad loooks with pants below his hips :hmmm: Beetlejee problem is with lower middle calss and even poor family's they cant show any incentives to make sue kids listen to them [we all know majority of India falls into which category] even now i watched a Father hitting his 3/4 year old Girl for some small issues...kid cried for a second then went onto play happily...
Lord Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 My parents used to beat me up u must hv deserved it:aetsch:
bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 what if son decieded how his Dad loooks with pants below his hips :hmmm: Beetlejee problem is with lower middle calss and even poor family's they cant show any incentives to make sue kids listen to them [we all know majority of India falls into which category] even now i watched a Father hitting his 3/4 year old Girl for some small issues...kid cried for a second then went onto play happily... thats wat i said in post 10
bangladeshifan Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 My parents used to beat me up hmm now i knw y u mentally challenged. fee sorry for u bro :((
bulbul Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 My parents used to beat me up so what will be your answer if the Surveyor from Kaku's survey link came to you and asked about abuse..
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