lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 Situation: Girl I like ********student Now heres the deal, I 'like' her. She is nice and cool and is ABOVE my league. We're pretty decent friends, though not close enough. Like no party invites (well that might be because she knows I don't like partying, plus our friend circles isn't too common) Now I can ask her out today and the result sample space is - 1) REJECTED, and then awkwardness every time we see each other which is BAD. 2) Not Rejected, though a maybe date and we still stay friends 3) Actual Date - and then whatever happens after that is unpredictable. My other option is, wait for a year. At that point, ask her out because we will be graduating and the only way I'll get to see her would be if I became involved with her. So in short - ask today and risk losing friendship or ask a year from now when its the only option to keep seeing her? Help ppl .... and also that 5 posts before creating a thread rule is lame.:cantstop:
suraj Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 FCUK Friendship and just ask her out mate!!! You will thank me forever for the advice
beetle Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 >>>Help ppl .... and also that 5 posts before creating a thread rule is lame. :hysterical:you really wanted this off your chest na? How emotional are you? How well are you likely to take a rejection? Are you willing to wait one year and risk losing her to someone who dared to risk rejection?
Predator_05 Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 This is what you do. 1. Take her out to a bar 2. Get her completely sh it-faced drunk 3. Bring her back home (or her place, wherever, doesn't matter) and then you will both get it on 4. Next thing in the morning, cuddle up and tell her that you went all the way 'cos you thought she was special 5. Assuming that she isn't a wh0re, she will fall for that and give you her number I've done this many times and it WORKS. Put aside $50 for the rum at the bar starting today
fineleg Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 You will thank me forever for the advice Hez not gonna take ur advice since u have posts such as the below :D I will not discriminate and volunteer to have sex with both- the model and the pornstar!! :banghead:
lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 Actually I'm an old member here. Maybe you can track me through my ICF $ money laundering activities :haha: anyway ppl, come on some more advice. Lots of time left before the day ends ..... oh and predator - that was lame.
lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 Don't die wondering. Ask her out! Been wondering for about 6 months already .... haha KILL ME NOW
Predator_05 Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 I think the fact that you have waited SIX MONTHS to ask this girl out (and are willing to wait another YEAR, LOL) is as lame as it gets. Grow a pair of balls, man.
lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 I think the fact that you have waited SIX MONTHS to ask this girl out (and are willing to wait another YEAR' date=' LOL) is as lame as it gets. Grow a pair of balls, man.[/quote'] dude six months back i didn't know anything about her. Asking her out randomly I doubt would have worked out. In these past 6 months, I've spent some great time with her and I've had fun. So I don't think its lame. You can pretend to be all macho online and say **** like - spend 50 bucks on drinks and she'll fall for you kind of crap, but everyone knows you're just pretending.
Predator_05 Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 dude six months back i didn't know anything about her. Asking her out randomly I doubt would have worked out. In these past 6 months' date=' I've spent some great time with her and I've had fun. So I don't think its lame. You can pretend to be all macho online and say **** like - spend 50 bucks on drinks and she'll fall for you kind of crap, but everyone knows you're just pretending.[/quote'] Hey man, if you don't want my advice, don't take it. You can wait another year. But in that space of time, she will probably go in and out of 3 different men
BongaSamaj2 Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 . My other option is, wait for a year. At that point, ask her out because we will be graduating and the only way I'll get to see her would be if I became involved with her. So in short - ask today and risk losing friendship or ask a year from now when its the only option to keep seeing her? Help ppl .... and also that 5 posts before creating a thread rule is lame.:cantstop: how stupid of you asking for advice sitting online???
fineleg Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 Actually I'm an old member here. Maybe you can track me through my ICF $ money laundering activities :haha: . ah, just another duplicate id :thumbs_up: Who are you (havent been following the ICF money laundering :D)
lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 Hey man' date=' if you don't want my advice, don't take it. You can wait another year. But in that space of time, she will probably go in and out of 3 different men[/quote'] she isn't that kind of girl. I pretty sure she hasn't had a bf before.
lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 ah, just another duplicate id :thumbs_up: Who are you (havent been following the ICF money laundering :D) You're the only one who has received money from me ... sooo ... is lovebird=whineleg- i mean fineleg :D Rajeev plz check fineleg's ICF account transactions :D
lovebird Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 how stupid of you asking for advice sitting online??? Dude, seriously how is this post relevant to the thread. Online is convenient, good enough reason for you?
head coach Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 With all respect to women in this forums no man can be sure that his girl didn't have an affair before or even didn't have sex before.
fineleg Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 You're the only one who has received money from me ... sooo ... is lovebird=whineleg- i mean fineleg :D Rajeev plz check fineleg's ICF account transactions :D Are you Chunky Lafanga? (but chunky is already married hmmm :questionmark:) Dont take some of the advice thrown around. Always behave very decently with her, and go slow. Dont rush into these thingz. Ask her out ONLY when you are comfortable and ONLY when you are mentally ready to accept the rejection. Just forget how many guys shez into in one year etc etc. If you are confident, (and only when ur confident), then proceed.
goose Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 No offence but you're actually expecting rejection and women sniff that sh%t out from a mile.
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