FischerTal Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 (edited) I have never dated Indian girls. People judge you for this, especially relatives and friends. One of my aunts always tells me "Hamari ladkiyon main kya problem hain" I think many of them are just angry or uncomfortable with people venturing out. A cousin of mine is dating a white girl for past 4 years. He wants to get married to her, but his father hasn't accepted their relationship because he wants a gujju girl that too from our caste LOL... like thats gonna happen. I hope the new generation of Indians, both in India and outside, are more open-minded. Edited February 12, 2020 by FischerTal beetle and Mariyam 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mariyam Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Stradlater said: To quote my sister: "Kabhi khud pocha lagaakar dekhna pata lag jaega". She is right. Use doormats. Edited February 12, 2020 by Mariyam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stradlater Posted February 12, 2020 Author Share Posted February 12, 2020 3 hours ago, FischerTal said: I have never dated Indian girls. People judge you for this, especially relatives and friends. One of my aunts always tells me "Hamari ladkiyon main kya problem hain" I think many of them are just angry or uncomfortable with people venturing out. A cousin of mine is dating a white girl for past 4 years. He wants to get married to her, but his father hasn't accepted their relationship because he wants a gujju girl that too from our caste LOL... like thats gonna happen. I hope the new generation of Indians, both in India and outside, are more open-minded. I can't even imagine getting married to a girl outside my caste. coffee_rules, velu, Mariyam and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mariyam Posted February 13, 2020 Share Posted February 13, 2020 (edited) 17 hours ago, Stradlater said: I can't even imagine getting married to a girl outside my caste. A friend, who is a doctor, told me this: The Bhanushali community of Gujarat, are descendants of the remnants of Alexander's army who married local women. Since they were mainly Greeks, they carried with them a whole lot of genetic traits which are characteristic of the people in the Aegean/Mediterranean (damn, I always need spell check for the names of seas ). One trait is the propensity towards Thalassemia. No, @velu it has nothing to do with Dhoni. Since the Bhanushali community has been fairly endogamic, they have passed these traits successfully for generations. The other Gujarati castes, which don't have this lineage obviously have significantly lesser levels of Thalassemia. The Thalassemia problem has become so pronounced that even on marriage websites and informal gatherings, when rishtas were being discussed it is mandatory to categorically state the presence of Thalassemia: Thalassemia Major, Thalassemia minor or non Thalassemia. And the elders wouldn't permit marriages between two Thalassemia minor's coz it means a high probability that the offspring has Thalassemia major. I remember you mentioning that you are a Rajput. I'm sure that there must be a lot of genetic traits (read diseases) that are endemic to your extended tribe. You should try this excuse at home. Good chance that it may work. Edited February 13, 2020 by Mariyam Stradlater 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velu Posted February 13, 2020 Share Posted February 13, 2020 17 hours ago, Stradlater said: I can't even imagine getting married to a girl outside my caste. 51 minutes ago, Mariyam said: A friend, who is a doctor, told me this: The Bhanushali community of Gujarat, are descendants of the remnants of Alexander's army who married local women. Since they were mainly Greeks, they carried with them a whole lot of genetic traits which are characteristic of the people in the Aegean/Mediterranean (damn, I always need spell check for the names of seas ). One trait is the propensity towards Thalassemia. No, @velu it has nothing to do with Dhoni. Since the Bhanushali community has been fairly endogamic, they have passed these traits successfully for generations. The other Gujarati castes, which don't have this lineage obviously have significantly lesser levels of Thalassemia. The Thalassemia problem has become so pronounced that even on marriage websites and informal gatherings, when rishtas were being discussed it is mandatory to categorically state the presence of Thalassemia: Thalassemia Major, Thalassemia minor or non Thalassemia. And the elders wouldn't permit marriages between two Thalassemia minor's coz it means a high probability that the offspring has Thalassemia major. I remember you mentioning that you are a Rajput. I'm sure that there must be a lot of genetic traits (read diseases) that are endemic to your extended tribe. You should try this excuse at home. Good chance that it may work. even I can’t imagine getting married to someone outside my caste .. because the choice is not mine FischerTal and Stradlater 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stradlater Posted February 13, 2020 Author Share Posted February 13, 2020 57 minutes ago, Mariyam said: A friend, who is a doctor, told me this: The Bhanushali community of Gujarat, are descendants of the remnants of Alexander's army who married local women. Since they were mainly Greeks, they carried with them a whole lot of genetic traits which are characteristic of the people in the Aegean/Mediterranean (damn, I always need spell check for the names of seas ). One trait is the propensity towards Thalassemia. No, @velu it has nothing to do with Dhoni. Since the Bhanushali community has been fairly endogamic, they have passed these traits successfully for generations. The other Gujarati castes, which don't have this lineage obviously have significantly lesser levels of Thalassemia. The Thalassemia problem has become so pronounced that even on marriage websites and informal gatherings, when rishtas were being discussed it is mandatory to categorically state the presence of Thalassemia: Thalassemia Major, Thalassemia minor or non Thalassemia. And the elders wouldn't permit marriages between two Thalassemia minor's coz it means a high probability that the offspring has Thalassemia major. I remember you mentioning that you are a Rajput. I'm sure that there must be a lot of genetic traits (read diseases) that are endemic to your extended tribe. You should try this excuse at home. Good chance that it may work. While the chances of harmful homozygous genetic traits intermittently resurfacing are a common occurrence in the endogamous small populations (Bhanushalis in this case) , I don't think Rajputs which are a considerable large group having scattered across the whole northern India, have much to worry about this. From Jamwals in Jammu to Parmars in Chhattisgarh or Bhatis from Jaisalmer to Chauhans in Bihar, I have plenty of clans to choose from (as long as they are the 'pure' ones and not pretending). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velu Posted February 13, 2020 Share Posted February 13, 2020 28 minutes ago, Stradlater said: While the chances of harmful homozygous genetic traits intermittently resurfacing are a common occurrence in the endogamous small populations (Bhanushalis in this case) , I don't think Rajputs which are a considerable large group having scattered across the whole northern India, have much to worry about this. From Jamwals in Jammu to Parmars in Chhattisgarh or Bhatis from Jaisalmer to Chauhans in Bihar, I have plenty of clans to choose from (as long as they are the 'pure' ones and not pretending). I still think you prefer deserty Rajputs ladka sit around hookah pipe and playing cards .. ladkis will go around making sandwich for you ladkas .. heavenly life Stradlater 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stradlater Posted February 13, 2020 Author Share Posted February 13, 2020 2 hours ago, velu said: I still think you prefer deserty Rajputs ladka sit around hookah pipe and playing cards .. ladkis will go around making sandwich for you ladkas .. heavenly life The people in the picture are Jats though. We don't wear that kind of turban. Yeah desert girls are nice. Submissive and obedient. Women belong in the kitchen far as I'm concerned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FischerTal Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 On 2/12/2020 at 9:14 AM, Stradlater said: I can't even imagine getting married to a girl outside my caste. Find your inner Kabir Singh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FischerTal Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 21 hours ago, Stradlater said: The people in the picture are Jats though. We don't wear that kind of turban. Yeah desert girls are nice. Submissive and obedient. Women belong in the kitchen far as I'm concerned. @beetle @Mariyam velu 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stradlater Posted February 14, 2020 Author Share Posted February 14, 2020 17 minutes ago, FischerTal said: @beetle @Mariyam That was supposed to be a joke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FischerTal Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 3 minutes ago, Stradlater said: That was supposed to be a joke. I know lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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