ViruRulez Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 If your husband is enjoying a secret rendezvous with another woman, don't run after him with a knife, for the extra-marital affair is a sign that your marriage is a healthy one. That's the claim of France's most prominent female psychologist Maryse Vaillant in controversial new book on the effects of infidelity on married life, Men, Love, Fidelity, reports The Telegraph . Vaillant reckons that men who keep mistresses actually improve their marriage. "[Most] don't do it because they no longer love them, on the contrary," she said. "They simply need breathing space. For such men, who are in fact profoundly monogamous, infidelity is almost unavoidable". Once women accept that the "pact of fidelity is not natural but cultural", and that infidelity is essential to the "psychic functioning" of certain men who are still very much in love, it can be a "very liberating" for women, she added. In her book, Vaillant insists that fidelity is not, by definition proof of love. "They are often men whose father was physically or morally absent ... during their childhood. These men have a completely idealised view of their father and the paternal function," she said. "They lack suppleness and are prisoners to an idealised image of a man of duty." http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Extra-marital-affairs-are-good-for-marriage-/articleshow/5395063.cms This is highlighted as one of the top news by TOI website. :WTF: I am not married and so not concerned about the topic but how does it make into a news website and that too in top news. Even more interesting is the comments on the news article with 360+ comments already. The comments of female commentators are even funnier as if they are getting highly insecure. But on a serous note, how crap can a reputed site like TOI go for the sake of attracting visitors. They are giving the tabloids a run for money and is gradually turning into dailymail kind of reporting if not worse. :giggle:
ViruRulez Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 5 best positions to get pregnant fast Getting pregnant maybe the easiest of all things, however, some couples do find it hard to conceive for several reasons, including weak or insufficient sperm count. In some cases, as when nature needs a boost, a little push from you and your partner can go a long way in getting pregnant. When it comes to the best position to get pregnant, the general rule is that the male sperm must be deposited as near to the female cervix as possible. This has something to do with the life spans of the female egg and the male sperm. Once an egg is released from the ovary – a stage also known as ovulation – it begins its path down the fallopian tube to the uterus. A released egg typically survives for only 24 hours, while a sperm can last anywhere from three to five days in the female body. As such, the egg has to be as close to the egg as possible so they can meet and join before the egg dies. While not a lot of people will agree that the sexual positions have anything to do with getting pregnant, the logical inference is that it makes sense to assume the position that can help the sperm meet the egg in the shortest possible time. This is especially true when for couples who have problems or difficulty conceiving. Having said this, the first "best position to get pregnant" tip is to avoid positions that least expose the cervix to the male sperm, and that generally defy gravity such as sex while standing up, sitting down, or with the woman on top. When trying to conceive, it is best to limit the amount of sperm that flows back out of the vagina. The woman's hips should also be positioned in such a way that the sperm released is kept inside, giving it enough time to swim up to the female cervix. Consider the following positions instead: 1. The missionary position. Or man-on-top is said to be the position that's best for getting pregnant. This is because this particular position allows for the deepest possible penetration, making it possible for the sperm to get deposited closest to the cervix. 2. Raise the hips. Elevating the hips, which can be done by placing a pillow behind her, can also be helpful because this exposes the female cervix to as much semen as the male can release. 3. Doggy-style. The rear-entry position where the man enters the woman from behind is also a recommended position. In this position, sperm is also deposited closest to the cervix, thereby helping increase the chances of conception. 4. Side-by-side. You can also try having intercourse while lying side by side. This position likewise causes the most exposure of the cervix to the male sperm. 5. Orgasms. Finally, while this has nothing to do with sexual positions, there are also researches that suggest the importance of the female orgasm in conceiving. According to studies, female orgasm leads to contractions that could push sperm up into the cervix. The lesson: have fun while trying to conceive. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/5-best-positions-to-get-pregnant-fast/articleshow/5317909.cms Another WTF TOI article published as top news. And more than 200 comments here too. I am not sure if TOI is a news site or rather a masala site. :cantstop:
Guest Shivani Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Men, Love, Fidelity, sounds more like options to pick the odd one out :P
Clarke Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 sounds more like options to pick the odd one out :P U intend to pick between men and love :hmmm: So love's looking the other way ?
Gunner_Mania Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Extra-marital-affairs-are-good-for-marriage-/articleshow/5395063.cms This is highlighted as one of the top news by TOI website. :WTF: I am not married and so not concerned about the topic but how does it make into a news website and that too in top news. Even more interesting is the comments on the news article with 360+ comments already. The comments of female commentators are even funnier as if they are getting highly insecure. But on a serous note, how crap can a reputed site like TOI go for the sake of attracting visitors. They are giving the tabloids a run for money and is gradually turning into dailymail kind of reporting if not worse. :giggle: :hysterical::hysterical:
Aaku Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 What rubbishhh TOI :mad: :mad: U intend to pick between men and love :hmmm: So love's looking the other way ? :giggle::giggle::giggle::giggle:
Sir john Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 In our colleges professors ask students to read TOI. :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: but i read pioneer.:yay:
ravishingravi Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 TOI is a tabloid. Soon we will have the customary nude picture in the front page.
Sachinism Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 In our colleges professors ask students to read TOI. :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: but i read pioneer.:yay: http://indiancricketfans.com/search.php?do=finduser&u=13249 :hmmmm:
beetle Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 interesting theory. :hmmm: Iski baton par mat jaana...rote rah jaoge...:headshake: People will write anything to sell a few books.
beetle Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 TOI is a tabloid. Soon we will have the customary nude picture in the front page. Front page pe to abhi nahi but last page par to shuru kar diya ha...I changed to HT some time back.
Sir john Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 http://indiancricketfans.com/search.php?do=finduser&u=13249 :hmmmm: :finger: this one man http://www.dailypioneer.com/
nballa Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Trash of India at it again. pulling absurd and strange theories out of their collective asses.
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