Reason behind Mohammed Shammi's decline

[Straight Drive]

2 hours ago, Mosher said:

Shami charged with attempt to murder, domestic violence, rape in FIR.

 

The sections invoked against the 27-year-old pacer, who made his debut in November 2013, include 307 (attempt to murder), 498A (domestic violence), 506 (criminal intimidation), 328 (causing hurt by means of poison), 34 (acts by several persons in furtherance of common intention) and 376 (rape). The last section was brought against Mohammed Shami’s elder brother.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/cricket/mohammed-shami-charged-for-domestic-violence-attempt-to-murder/story-47IBoxqFMCDtEb8hCKvfUO.html

Don't think he will ever flirt with any other girl than his wife even if a model stands nude in front of him. 

[rkt.india]

1 hour ago, Straight Drive said:

Accusing her of being mentally disturbed shows he has nothing to defend after all this video and chats. He realized she is mental after so many years. Probably will try to use this mental problem in court so that all truth she has exposed she takes can be swept under the carpet. When he is on tours and so busy with cricket in and out of India, this so called mental lady has grown up the kid so well. What a shameful parent he is. Don't even think about the kid. So low he can stoop?

They got married in 2014 and according to her, he is asking for divorce for last two years, so, he did realize it 2 years back.  Regarding video and chats, those chats does not make him criminal as infidelity isnt a crime and it is anyway allowed in Islam, Polygyny is allowed in his religion.

Edited March 9, 2018 by rkt.india

[rkt.india]

1 hour ago, G_B_ said:

Look clearly Shami is bit of a sleaze bag for sleeping around. Not going to win morality 101. 

 

But this is getting a bit too much. Match fixing? Rape? and all that.

 

Just get a divorce and be done with it. The divorce should be fair IMO. Should get 30-40% of his assets. I see people blaming women for making these outlandish claims, but they do so cause Indian courts do not grant a fair distribution of assets. 

 

Also, lets be honest Shami is not really 28. His actual age is around 33-34 (I base this looking at him and my experience of his type of people from that region). So the decline in him is due to his age. Shami probably had at max another 2-3 years for India. 

she does not want to give him a divorce. She herself said he wants divorce for last two years.

[WC2011INDIA]

Both are *ed up...kid unnecessarily being tortured in all this. 

[Straight Drive]

7 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

They got married in 2014 and according to her, he is asking for divorce for last two years, so, he did realize it 2 years back.  Regarding video and chats, those chats does not make him criminal as infidelity isnt a crime and it is anyway allowed in Islam, Polygyny is allowed in his religion.

Two years to recognize that someone as close as your spouse is mental.  No chance. I can understand a couple marries in haste without making background checks and realizing later one is mental after few days. But two years.

 

And she has raised a daughter who seems to be more than 4 years with little time from Shami due to cricketing commitments . Still she is mental ? 

 

Chats do not make him a criminal for him in eyes of us fans and BCCI, but for his spouse , given whatever she has proved with evidence, he has done huge wrongdoings to her. It matters to her, not us and that is why she is probably taking revenge by exposing him brutally and also adding some other severe offences just to ensure he suffers a lot more than he made her suffer.

 

 

[NameGoesHere]

3 hours ago, Mosher said:

Shami charged with attempt to murder, domestic violence, rape in FIR.

 

The sections invoked against the 27-year-old pacer, who made his debut in November 2013, include 307 (attempt to murder), 498A (domestic violence), 506 (criminal intimidation), 328 (causing hurt by means of poison), 34 (acts by several persons in furtherance of common intention) and 376 (rape). The last section was brought against Mohammed Shami’s elder brother.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/cricket/mohammed-shami-charged-for-domestic-violence-attempt-to-murder/story-47IBoxqFMCDtEb8hCKvfUO.html

Goddamn! 

 

This looks like a group of lawyers got together and threw the kitchen sink at Shami.  

 

Anyway, this is a really nasty family drama being played out in public.  No winners.

[Straight Drive]

38 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

They got married in 2014 and according to her, he is asking for divorce for last two years, so, he did realize it 2 years back.  Regarding video and chats, those chats does not make him criminal as infidelity isnt a crime and it is anyway allowed in Islam, Polygyny is allowed in his religion.

http://www.catchnews.com/cricket-news/mohammad-shami-is-not-the-first-husband-of-hasin-jahan-know-some-shocking-facts-about-cricketer-s-wife-102145.html

 

He was dating her 5 years before marriage. Then they married din 2014, so another 4 years. Shami takes so many years to relaize his near ones are mental or not. 

[rkt.india]

18 minutes ago, Straight Drive said:

Two years to recognize that someone as close as your spouse is mental.  No chance. I can understand a couple marries in haste without making background checks and realizing later one is mental after few days. But two years.

 

And she has raised a daughter who seems to be more than 4 years with little time from Shami due to cricketing commitments . Still she is mental ? 

 

Chats do not make him a criminal for him in eyes of us fans and BCCI, but for his spouse , given whatever she has proved with evidence, he has done huge wrongdoings to her. It matters to her, not us and that is why she is probably taking revenge by exposing him brutally and also adding some other severe offences just to ensure he suffers a lot more than he made her suffer.

 

 

He wont suffer anything if those severe offences are not proved.  If he has really done those serious offences then he deserves it.  The problem is why she was not giving her divorce when he was asking for last two years. this is what happens when you are forced to stay. its her mistake to not give him divorce.  

[Straight Drive]

3 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

He wont suffer anything if those severe offences are not proved.  If he has really done those serious offences then he deserves it.  The problem is why she was not giving her divorce when he was asking for last two years. this is what happens when you are forced to stay. its her mistake to not give him divorce.  

Divorce becomes a tough decision once a couple has kids. I have heard few couples, in which one partner is not happy with other, but then they stay because they have kid/s and they decide to face the disputes daily for the sake of kid/s. There could be other reasons like financial stability of marrying an international cricketer earning crores annually. Probably being a divorcee before and this being second marriage, did not want to marry third time and hang onto this relation or some other reason. But only she would be able to tell her reason for not divorcing.

 

As for Shami suffering, he has already suffered. He would have easily got a grade A or B contract or in worst case C. His contract has been withheld, the cases she has filed are of severe consequences. Companies will not give him advertisement contracts so soon as he is now in loads of negative attention and contract is also lost.

[rkt.india]

18 minutes ago, Straight Drive said:

http://www.catchnews.com/cricket-news/mohammad-shami-is-not-the-first-husband-of-hasin-jahan-know-some-shocking-facts-about-cricketer-s-wife-102145.html

 

He was dating her 5 years before marriage. Then they married din 2014, so another 4 years. Shami takes so many years to relaize his near ones are mental or not. 

no. this is wrong information. Shami had some other gf but his family was not accepting his gf so he married Hasin Jahan. him dating his wife is a wrong info. 

[Straight Drive]

3 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

no. this is wrong information. Shami had some other gf but his family was not accepting his gf so he married Hasin Jahan. him dating his wife is a wrong info. 

Still one does not takes 2 years to know spouse is mental. It will be evident very soon.

[rkt.india]

Just now, Straight Drive said:

Still one does not takes 2 years to know spouse is mental. It will be evident very soon.

it does because he is a cricketer, barely spending much time with family, staying overseas and playing cricket for India.  also, she already having a divorce will for sure weaken her case and that is why she has filed such insane sections in FIR.

[Straight Drive]

9 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

it does because he is a cricketer, barely spending much time with family, staying overseas and playing cricket for India.  also, she already having a divorce will for sure weaken her case and that is why she has filed such insane sections in FIR.

Multiple sites mention that they both were dating for years before getting married.

 

Don't agree regarding so much time is required to understand someone is mental.

 

Phone communications happen on tours, there are so many home tours as well, break between tours, then he was injured few times.

 

Also, considering she was divorcee, surely he or his family would have made some fact finding if she had some severe issues like mental issues etc before marrying.

 

Yes, some of the cases may be false like rape or abuse etc, but she seems upset because she is cheated and is taking extreme revenge for this cheating.

Edited March 9, 2018 by Straight Drive

[beetle]

23 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

He wont suffer anything if those severe offences are not proved.  If he has really done those serious offences then he deserves it.  The problem is why she was not giving her divorce when he was asking for last two years. this is what happens when you are forced to stay. its her mistake to not give him divorce.  

The time to ask for unilateral divorce is before a person chooses to have a child.

Once you bring a child in this world, you cannot just say I quit. 

 

He can go get married again without thinking but she has to make sure if she marries, then that person has to be right not just for her but more importantly for her daughter.Life for single parents is not easy.

 

She had to leave her profession because his family objected.

Will she get those opportunities back after a break and a child? 

Will she be able to work  and earn a living while taking care of a child?

Will she be able to provide a good lifestyle to the child?

If he is a good father, how will the child grow up without the father?

How will they share custody  ?Will his future partners treat the child right?

 

So many questions. Being divorced is not easy in our country. Being a single parent is difficult in most countries. 

[rkt.india]

6 minutes ago, beetle said:

The time to ask for unilateral divorce is before a person chooses to have a child.

Once you bring a child in this world, you cannot just say I quit. 

 

He can go get married again without thinking but she has to make sure if she marries, then that person has to be right not just for her but more importantly for her daughter.Life for single parents is not easy.

 

She had to leave her profession because his family objected.

Will she get those opportunities back after a break and a child? 

Will she be able to work  and earn a living while taking care of a child?

Will she be able to provide a good lifestyle to the child?

If he is a good father, how will the child grow up without the father?

How will they share custody  ?Will his future partners treat the child right?

 

So many questions. Being divorced is not easy in our country. Being a single parent is difficult in most countries. 

you are forgetting that this is not her first marriage and he will have to fully compensate her if they divorce

Edited March 9, 2018 by rkt.india

[rkt.india]

6 minutes ago, Straight Drive said:

Multiple sites mention that they both were dating for years before getting married.

 

 

She herself said that in an interview 2-3 days back that she got to know about her gf within one month of marriage.

[Straight Drive]

1 minute ago, rkt.india said:

you are forgetting that this is not her first marriage.

Did she have kids from first marriage.

 

Even if she had is it wise to opt for divorce in second marriage as well and go for third.

 

Moreover, being divorcee would not Shami and his family done a check on her mental aspects or any issues knowing she was divorcee. Could that be hidden with resources and money a cricketer would have put to work before ensuring she is okay to get married too. 

[putrevus]

So who is at fault here according to ICFers?

[beetle]

2 minutes ago, rkt.india said:

you are forgetting that this is not her first marriage.

All the more reason to not want to go through it again.

It is tougher when you have a child.

But that is when there is no abuse or cheating involved 

 

What I don't understand is why one would want to stay in a marriage with adultery , physical, mental and sexual abuse that she has accused him and his family of.

 

Even one of those is enough to want to leave . Besides exposing a child to such a life is irresponsible behavior on her part . She should leave for the sake of her child if she is telling the truth.

 

[Straight Drive]

2 minutes ago, beetle said:

All the more reason to not want to go through it again.

It is tougher when you have a child.

But that is when there is no abuse or cheating involved 

 

What I don't understand is why one would want to stay in a marriage with adultery , physical, mental and sexual abuse that she has accused him and his family of.

 

Even one of those is enough to want to leave . Besides exposing a child to such a life is irresponsible behavior on her part . She should leave for the sake of her child if she is telling the truth.

 

Some of her claims seems to be false . Seems more like she wants a severe revenge now for him cheating on her even after many hopes or expectations of improvement in flirting.