Aaku Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Noway if she cheats for you, she ll cheat on you :thumbs_down:
bulbul Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Noway if she cheats for you, she ll cheat on you :thumbs_down: Op, take the above expert advice :nice:
BlueBee Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 From my experience and others' date=' people who will cheat with their current partner to be with you will also 100% of the time cheat on you.[/quote'] +1
Dark Warrior Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Noway if she cheats for you, she ll cheat on you :thumbs_down: So you'll cheat on me then :((
Laaloo Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Noway if she cheats for you, she ll cheat on you :thumbs_down: ++ aaku did the same :((
Roshanrocks Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 This thread also has mixed responses... Now whom will Tiger ask :idunno:
_Triple_H_ Posted March 30, 2015 Author Posted March 30, 2015 thx for the response guys. The cheating point was raised by my female friends as well. Okay I may be off the charts here but tell me how exactly is that cheating? We haven't done anything. We are just having casual conversation from time to time. She hasn't committed anything to me. We haven't discussed anything about her boyfriend or personal life in details. Neither she has shared things which one dose with someone very close/ BF/ trustworthy, etc. And yes the Bf isn't fictional. She has many photos with him on her fb. I am still not sure what to do. Maybe will give it couple of more days before doing something.
sensible-indian Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 thx for the response guys. The cheating point was raised by my female friends as well. Okay I may be off the charts here but tell me how exactly is that cheating? We haven't done anything. We are just having casual conversation from time to time. She hasn't committed anything to me. We haven't discussed anything about her boyfriend or personal life in details. Neither she has shared things which one dose with someone very close/ BF/ trustworthy, etc. And yes the Bf isn't fictional. She has many photos with him on her fb. I am still not sure what to do. Maybe will give it couple of more days before doing something. Her willingness to be close to you, flirt and talk about stuff when she has a BF doesn't look good on her. its possible she may cheat on her BF with you. But at the same time, we don't know her at all so can't assassinate her character. We don't know how her BF is. He may be a jerk and she may be looking to get out but never really took action on it (humans can be like that) and seeing you...she feels like she wants to go for it. Its possible. I firmly believe on being open about what an outcome has to be with a girl. My suggestion to you is this: Next time, you talk to her, flirt and do the same stuff you have been doing but ALSO ask her about her BF. I can see that that you don't know if you are not ready for a serious relationship (let alone marriage) which is why you dropped the topic. But I would suggest you to tackle it head on. Not only will it give you clarity but she will respect you more. If you feel you are not ready for a serious one or you like to take things as they go on, TELL her that. If she gets pissed off with that, great...you have done a good job in eliminating a messy relationship. But if she is fine with it, you can move ahead. Do get her views about her BF (even if she doesn't explicitly say it...the choice of words and tone would convey 90% of it). If you are planning to have fun with her or have a serious relationship or a casual one that COULD turn serious if things go well.....then please ask her to make a choice.....you or her BF. Don't ever have fun with her when she has a BF. You may not be accountable to her BF but its a classless thing to do. And bad karma too (if you believe in that stuff). So get her to open up and get her views and make your thoughts clear to her. When you do that, you both will have a clear idea of what's going on and you can make a decision on how to move forward from there.
CSK Fan Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 thx for the response guys. The cheating point was raised by my female friends as well. Okay I may be off the charts here but tell me how exactly is that cheating? We haven't done anything. We are just having casual conversation from time to time. She hasn't committed anything to me. We haven't discussed anything about her boyfriend or personal life in details. Neither she has shared things which one dose with someone very close/ BF/ trustworthy, etc. And yes the Bf isn't fictional. She has many photos with him on her fb. I am still not sure what to do. Maybe will give it couple of more days before doing something. Uff, not cheating now, but if you take it further, like you have asked in the OP, then of course it will be cheating. Even if she breaks up with him.
CSK Fan Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 This thread also has mixed responses... Now whom will Tiger ask :idunno: Duh of course, ignore all the virgins (who will be like- wow girls - chance to touch, OMG!) and take the advice of experienced people
sensible-indian Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Uff' date=' not cheating now, but if you take it further, like you have asked in the OP, then of course it will be cheating. Even if she breaks up with him.[/quote'] If she breaks up with him before going out with Triple H, its not cheating bud. You can call her anything else (depending on the context and reason for breakup) but not cheating.
sensible-indian Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Duh of course' date=' ignore all the virgins (who will be like- wow girls - chance to touch, OMG!) and take the advice of experienced people[/quote'] Maybe virgins might be jealous and ask him to stay away. :cantstop:
vvvslaxman Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 STAY away from this.... long distance --- hell no, never works, u will get cheated on (if this goes further) She's having her options open...to have u and her bf both on the hooks...in case one doesn't work, can always go for the other. Dude, do not fall for it. Think with your head, not the other head. :cantstop:
kruiser Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 how is it cheating if she breaks off here relationship with current BF and starts a new one with you? My personal experience - keep things simple, don't over-think. Ask her straight if she is interested in a relationship - in a nice manner, showing your interest first, if she says yes, clear any questions that you have about old BF and go forward! Bottom-line is the cliche - if you don't ask, you will regret whole life what if..
velu Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 i saw "Millers Crossing" yesterday and OPs plot looks bit similar .. leo , tom and verna :giggle:
Donal Cozzie Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Ask for the BF's name, write his name in your death note and swoop in for the rebound
Aaku Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 auditioning for a better BF while you are in a relationship is sorta not nice
Desi Cartman Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 thx for the response guys. The cheating point was raised by my female friends as well. Okay I may be off the charts here but tell me how exactly is that cheating? We haven't done anything. We are just having casual conversation from time to time. She hasn't committed anything to me. We haven't discussed anything about her boyfriend or personal life in details. Neither she has shared things which one dose with someone very close/ BF/ trustworthy, etc. And yes the Bf isn't fictional. She has many photos with him on her fb. I am still not sure what to do. Maybe will give it couple of more days before doing something. Its about one's interpretation. Would you call it cheating if your GF is talking to another man and at the least giving signals that she is interested in more than being friends? Like I said before, I take this very seriously and I stayed away from these women all my life. Its another thing if you just want to hang out, if you are serious then think more.
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