Wedding Gift for an ex?

[Rajiv]

Ex getting married - someone who is really wealthy. I am invited to the wedding, what is an appropriate gift P.S I have gotten over it + money talks

[Alchemist]

Probably not showing up might be a good gift !!

[Rajiv]

I thought about it, but she kinda expressed that if I don't that means I never got over her. The worst part is that the groom doesn't know who I am

[Alchemist]

Any registry they made ? Or what is she into ?

[Rajiv]

Usual stuff, Jewelry..but I wanna be lil specific. Not really sure

[Alchemist]

How bout a cookware set or a spice rack ? They will use it won't they ?

[Rajiv]

Too rich for that, I need to give something substantial

[punjabi_khota]

^

[Cricketics]

Get something engraved on a particular thing which is in your house for a while or was used/liked by her. In the engraved text when mentiong something about yourself, keep something synonymous to your name rather than mentioning yours name.. ONE FOR THE LIFETIME this would be after all :two_thumbs_up: BTW :hatsoff: for your commitment.

[punjabi_khota]

Sree_India recommended $500+ noise cancelling, ego-propping headphones

[The Outsider]

A one on one session with Sai Baba for her husband's kundalini? :dontknow:

[Guest Shivani]

dont go ! bhare zakhm harey hogaye toh ? :omg:

[Rajiv]

Well, its not easy to say NO. I am still deciding but if I do, what damn gift do I give I cant be too personal but yet show that I care, frankly I don't think she is happy but money is good

[ravishingravi]

I m not sure whether I would ever be able to do it i.e go to an ex's wedding or choose a reasonable wedding gift. Usually I give cash or vouchers. It serves best.

[Guest Shivani]

Well, its not easy to say NO. I am still deciding but if I do, what damn gift do I give I cant be too personal but yet show that I care, frankly I don't think she is happy but money is good

mandap se utha kar ley aao :woot: if shes inviting you to her wedding means shes still into you... and wants you to do something like this :agree: :good:

[punjabi_khota]

mandap se utha kar ley aao :woot: if shes inviting you to her wedding means shes still into you... and wants you to do something like this :agree: :good:

[Texy]

you should gift wrap a photo frame w/ a pic of her and you w/ her face cut out or an X on her face and title it... yes I'm finally over you ....... or is that too creepy :D

[Bublu Bhuyan]

A one on one session with Sai Baba for her husband's kundalini? :dontknow:

:hysterical::hysterical::hysterical::hysterical:

[Mariyam]

Ex getting married - someone who is really wealthy. I am invited to the wedding, what is an appropriate gift P.S I have gotten over it + money talks

I thought about it' date=' but she kinda expressed that if I don't that means I never got over her. The worst part is that the groom doesn't know who I am[/quote'] Sorry to hear about all this Rajiv. Really am. My 2 cents: From what you've posted so far, it looks like she left you for a richer guy. She didn't leave you because of religion, or parental pressure or because of your sense of humour ( I'm joking :D ) or any such reason. She left you only for money ( so you make it sound). She left you solely because she got a chance to get hitched to a richer guy. And after all this she has the gall to lecture you on " if you don't come you haven't gotten over it". You should be the one lecturing here. Either she is a gold digger or not brave enough. Move on. She already has. If I were you I would text her " sorry, I can't make it today. My neighbour's domestic help's son's birthday party at his basement today. I could make it if you can postpone the wedding to tomorrow. If not, best of luck. PS : its my birthday after 1 month. Remember to come over with gifts. " Sorry if I said something that hurt you, but I see you haven't gotten over her and are actually contemplating going and gifting something. You go today and you will cry for the rest of your life.

[Texy]

^^^ you should email this to Kjo ...he'll make a script out of it