chapetmarunga Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bengaluru/after-bride-elopes-with-boyfriend-groom-scoots/articleshow/62688299.cms Nail biting stuff. Is kahani mein prem, suspense aur action sub kuch hai.
G_B_ Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 sad not a comedy at all. Me thinks that the cousin of the bride to be was not to the taste of the groom.... The problem is that these "elders" dont take human emotion in mind. While I dont have any evidence I suspect the bride's side tried to pawn off a less than worthy replacement with money involved to sweeten the deal. The guys side agreed but the guy did not. Both the bride and her parents to be blamed through. sensible-indian, Turning_track, Under_Score and 1 other 4
sensible-indian Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 Sad but from outside, funny though. They should make a movie out of it. G_B_ 1
Stradlater Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 (edited) Padmavati Manthap You sure Karni Sena wasn't involved Edited January 29, 2018 by Stradlater
velu Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 3 hours ago, G_B_ said: sad not a comedy at all. Me thinks that the cousin of the bride to be was not to the taste of the groom.... The problem is that these "elders" dont take human emotion in mind. While I dont have any evidence I suspect the bride's side tried to pawn off a less than worthy replacement with money involved to sweeten the deal. The guys side agreed but the guy did not. Both the bride and her parents to be blamed through. true that .. some of the girls my parent see for me migth be a good match for my father , and i told this to them Under_Score, beetle, G_B_ and 1 other 3 1
Stradlater Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 1 minute ago, velu said: true that .. some of the girls my parent see for me migth be a good match for my father , and i told this to them This is deep beetle and velu 1 1
velu Posted January 29, 2018 Posted January 29, 2018 7 minutes ago, velu said: true that .. some of the girls my parent see for me migth be a good match for my father , and i told this to them @BeautifulGame @Detonator The Dark Horse 1
beetle Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 10 hours ago, velu said: true that .. some of the girls my parent see for me migth be a good match for my father , and i told this to them Find some one who is ready to elope with you and just do it. Be the guy who gets the runaway bride rather than the running away from the bride guy. velu and Mariyam 2
nikred Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 Why do these guys wait till the time of the wedding to elope? Cant they just run away when the wedding is fixed instead? Too much of expenditure goes into weddings, you are already hurting your parents emotionally, why hurt them financially as well? Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk beetle 1
G_B_ Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 1 hour ago, nikred said: Why do these guys wait till the time of the wedding to elope? Cant they just run away when the wedding is fixed instead? Too much of expenditure goes into weddings, you are already hurting your parents emotionally, why hurt them financially as well? Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk its not that simple i guess. you elope way before the wedding the family can track you down and still make you attend... beetle 1
G_B_ Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 18 hours ago, velu said: true that .. some of the girls my parent see for me migth be a good match for my father , and i told this to them good... In the case of arranged marriages you need to be rational based on what your own pros and cons are though. In a way this is like buying and selling....market makers needed to provide the liquidity. :P velu 1
nikred Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 its not that simple i guess. you elope way before the wedding the family can track you down and still make you attend... But what can they do if you are already married? My cousin did the same thing. Once she eloped her parents were left with no choice but to accept their new son in law.That episode was full of drama as well. [emoji28]Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk
velu Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 42 minutes ago, nikred said: But what can they do if you are already married? My cousin did the same thing. Once she eloped her parents were left with no choice but to accept their new son in law. That episode was full of drama as well. Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk no violence involved ?
nikred Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 no violence involved ? Nah....nothing beyond heated arguments. But all the aunties and uncles going berserk was a sight to behold. [emoji1]But since they were neighbors and knew each other, they were cool over time. Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk
G_B_ Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 oh **** they were neighbors.... so she live next door to her parents?
nikred Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 oh **** they were neighbors.... so she live next door to her parents?She used to but not now. They have moved out. Nothing to do with eloping though. [emoji14]Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk
beetle Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 4 hours ago, nikred said: Why do these guys wait till the time of the wedding to elope? Cant they just run away when the wedding is fixed instead? Too much of expenditure goes into weddings, you are already hurting your parents emotionally, why hurt them financially as well? Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk True. But in most cases parents are also to blame. They assume that the child will not go against their wishes and marry someone they choose. How can they force someone to marry ? Rishta kar do then say..What will people say? Cards have been sent....what will people say ? Everything is more important than the kids happiness.
Number Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 (edited) My friend's wedding was fixed in June last year. Decent guy earning quite well close to 20-25 lpa. Hailed from a decent family Father lecturer mom housemaker. The girl and guys moms were friends from their schooldays but the girl and guy never met before. Girls family was super rich, had gemstones business in India and US. The girl was extremely good looking too. They had chats and talks over phone for months and he told me that everything was going well except that 15 days to marriage the girl said she doesn't feel attracted to him as yet thought she respects him a lot and may be with time it will happen. 10 days to marriage and the girl's daddy says we can't marry our daughter to your son coz he drinks(occasionally) showing WhatsApp screenshots of chats bw girl and boy. We are a very pure family and blah blah. Strange thing was the girl too also confessed in one of chats that she too drinks occasionally. Nobody knows what really happened behind the scenes. Weddings these days are such tough affair. Edited January 30, 2018 by Number
G_B_ Posted January 30, 2018 Posted January 30, 2018 cold feet... this is why maybe its wise to have a signed court wedding before the hindu rituals. Does not cost much and once you legally married even eloping is much harder.
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