mishra Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 44 minutes ago, Shunya said: This leads to the next debate. Parents and people in general will go back to conservative roots. Ladka ladki alag alag, female teachers for female students, etc. With bollywood stories coming out in huge numbers, surely lots of boys and girls will come to know that this glamour world that they dream of is not so glamorous afterall. Also India is not ready to become free like Western world, we need lot of education and awareness about so many of these issues. That includes men and women both. Dating scene is a mess, relationship scene is a mess. Almost like every citizen should be mandatorily enrolled in courses all over India simply to teach them basics of interaction between sexes and educating abt consent and other stuff. Long way to go. UrmiSinhaRay, Singh bling and Sachinism 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Had a lot of respect for him, chali gayi UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WC2011INDIA Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 4 hours ago, Sachinism said: Ranatunga and Malinga also caught up. I'm surprised no Indian cricketers have been named yet Raina....have heard about his escapades. UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mishra Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 (edited) 40 minutes ago, Ankit_sharma03 said: harrasement is harrasment saloni had diff type n tanushree diff Lets not compare Tanushree is not harrassment. Looks like Its more of misunderstanding or anger at something. There is no credibilty in her story , if it has been already proven that she has lied. Did u read what Saloni has written. Its very specific and similar to what we suspect. Edited October 11, 2018 by mishra velu and UrmiSinhaRay 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Just now, mishra said: Tanushree is not harrassment. Its more of anger at something. There is no credibilty in her story if it has been already proven that she has lied. 3 eye witness has comeout , its enough proof anger at not being listened her car being attacked also has a proof her being blacklisted by MNS is also proof this all is harassment, harassment isnt only sexual beetle and UrmiSinhaRay 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UrmiSinhaRay Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Had a lot of respect for him, chali gayi Asrani was always a creep lol. Expected this from him only Sent from my CPH1609 using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 It's all good on this movement, but whats the end game? Will everything just return back to normal? After all, we have criminals in bollywood, politics and all of them are doing very well. And this issue has shows that so called liberals will say the right things when it's about others, but will quiet down or silent mode when it's one of their own. It's no different from secularism practised in India. Reforms, interference in one community, while silence when it comes for other communities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 One more against subash ghai.....not at all shocking Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 1 minute ago, UrmiSinhaRay said: Asrani was always a creep lol. Expected this from him only Sent from my CPH1609 using Tapatalk hve heard about many , but never about him but yea the amount of thing i hve heard working here.....one thing i hve learned. Expect everything UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mishra Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 6 minutes ago, Ankit_sharma03 said: 3 eye witness has comeout , its enough proof anger at not being listened her car being attacked also has a proof her being blacklisted by MNS is also proof this all is harassment, harassment isnt only sexual Car was attacked on some other day. There is enogh youtube posts in this thread. If you go on each of them, you will understand why i call it a misunderstanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 1 minute ago, mishra said: Car was attacked on some other day. There is enogh youtube posts in this thread. If you go on each of them, you will understand why i call it a misunderstanding. no it was same day which is confirmed by those 3 n old videos check this video is uploaded 10 yrs ago now its easy to say it happened other day n its not been proven at all .....even the journalist hitting the car has said it happened same day on tv debates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mishra Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 24 minutes ago, Ankit_sharma03 said: no it was same day which is confirmed by those 3 n old videos check this video is uploaded 10 yrs ago now its easy to say it happened other day n its not been proven at all .....even the journalist hitting the car has said it happened same day on tv debates Chk this post. UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 21 minutes ago, mishra said: Chk this post. check this now u cnt go on hittng car like that if ur camera is broken , n the way media jumps on someone these thing can happen UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mishra Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 (edited) No point. The way media went after NanA's alleged inappropriate touch and keeps ignoring real serious cases of meToo makes me feel there there is some other angle. Edited October 11, 2018 by mishra Shunya, coffee_rules and UrmiSinhaRay 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shunya Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 2 hours ago, mishra said: Arre Sir, mera point yeh tha ki life is a mess for everyone in current times especially in entertainment industry like bollywood which is so full of crap. I dunno if anyone shud be taking interest in getting into such environment. And yea, surely being conservative in general is the way forward. Power struggle is going to make the environment more toxic in coming days. Plus we have one of the most important elections of Indian history coming up. So everything is going to get politicized and get dirty. UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vvvslaxman Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 7 hours ago, nikred said: Is it one of those "it happened to my friend" posts? Sent from my Redmi Note 4 using Tapatalk Actual friend. Not me. Closest friend. lol My experiences unsharable as well. I was way too young. UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankit_sharma03 Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 well said UrmiSinhaRay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wanted_desi Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 Quote This goes back to 2011, when I had barely just moved to India properly and wanted to assist a director to learn more about film making, and my first ever experience, was the most awful experience of my life. Unfortunately, I was naive and had no idea how to handle it at the time. He was famous for his interview questions. He asks questions like ‘do you masturbate?’ and ‘how many times a week?’… he also asked me if I’d ever been sexually abused, I said yes. Then he asked weird questions like if I would ever get a breast job, and talked about how sex is really a mental connection. Of course he went into a philosophical rant about our human bodies and it’s desires and how sorry he felt for people who had to go through abuse (not the only man who’s said this **** before they take advantage of you, it’s quite common) by the end of the interview I was in tears, and I wasn’t entirely sure why. I didn’t know if it was because I felt somewhat uncomfortable around him, or because I’d opened up too much. I got the job. When I first started working for Sajid, he said I was a ‘director’s assistant’ and not an ‘assistant director’ which apparently meant that I’d have to do his work directly. I was okay with that. Slowly, he started calling at really odd hours. If I didn’t pick up I was told it didn’t matter to him if I was shitting or showering or having sex, when he called — I had to answer. I was petrified. The calls started coming at 12 am and 2 am. He said the industry never sleeps and work happens at all hours… except he wasn’t talking about work. He’d ask me what I’m wearing or what I ate. He’d ask me to send him my bikini photos because he needed to know how I looked if I wanted to become an actor. Eventually, that turned into mental and emotional torture. For months, he mentally abused me and I would cry myself to sleep every night. He’d tell me I wasn’t sexy enough to be an actress. I didn’t have it in me, I didn’t have the ‘oomph’ factor. I talked too much. I didn’t sit properly. I wasn’t alluring or girly enough. Said he wanted to take me under his wing and make me an actress. Cast me in his next movie, but only if I was prepared for it. A part of me wanted it so bad that I kept working for him, and excusing his behaviour whenever I could. He’d say horrible, horrible things about his supposed girlfriend at the time, who also happened to be one of the kindest, nicest women I’d ever met in the industry. I wondered why she was with a man like that. He’d gloat about how he made her who she is today, and he could train me too. Then he’d go onto describe their sex life in ways I didn’t need to know, and also remind me about his one vagina problem. He’d talk about his dick and how big it apparently is and his sexual needs. He would ask me to touch his dick and get irritated with me when I said I didn’t want to. This one time, during a costume trial for a character in the movie he came in to see the girl in the outfit and asked her to lift her skirt and show her ass to him, she looked at me confused and I asked Sajid if it was necessary. She lifted her skirt and he started insulting her telling her she didn’t have any breasts or any ass, how did she think she’d become an actress? Then he asked me to leave the room and let them talk, and I did. It made me sick, but I clearly hadn’t had enough to quit. This went on for a few months. The calls, the comments. He’d ask me to come stay over at his house and I’d find whatever excuse I could to not go. The ‘I have to be on set at 8am’ excuse didn’t work because his response to that was ‘you can come in late. I’m the director and ill ask someone else to do the job’. So I told him my mum didn’t allow me to stay over at people’s house. One night, it got really ugly. I was so tired of the calls and the constant harassment, I asked him what he wanted from me. I told him that if this was just about sex then fine, I’d come over right now and * him but provided he backed off afterwards and stopped calling me every day. I was so tired of his behaviour that even my fear of him wasn’t enough to shut me up. He started yelling at me and claimed that I was so naive and stupid if I thought this was just about sex. This wasn’t about sex, it was about me being his little bitch and doing everything he told me to do. He’d name directors that keep actresses at their homes for months and thats just how this works. He then said ‘you think I want to * you? I have such a hot girlfriend, why would I * a girl like you thats not even sexy?’ So I asked, almost pleading, what was it that he wanted from me? He said he wants me to do everything he tells me to. Stay with him. Maybe he’ll ask me to touch myself in front of him, maybe he’ll want to record it. He’ll do things to me and give me orgasm and teach me the art of sex but maybe he won’t actually put his dick inside me. Maybe he will. But it would be up to him what he wanted and if I thought casting couch was just about a one time sex then I was foolish. No one would cast me unless I was ready to be their ‘keep’. Frustrated, I asked him to * off and I hung up on him. That night I went and told my mother everything. She told me I should quit, or find a way to handle it, but whatever I chose to do, I should be strong enough for either. The next time I went on set for shoot i was petrified of what he was going to do. But to my surprise, he acted like nothing had happened… for half a day. Then he called me to his ‘directors cabin’ and asked me to write an article for him for some newspaper that wanted to know his hobbies or more about him and his filthy self. I don’t remember what the article was but I liked writing, and he knew i was good at it, so I took his laptop and started typing. I asked him questions and he answered them for me. We didn’t talk about anything else, up until he pointed at the way I sat and snapped at me. ‘Spread your legs when you sit!’ I said I didn’t want to. He started again about how I was so unattractive and there was nothing sexy about me. I wasn’t even good enough to be an actress so how could he ever cast me. He could print a contract right now and make me sign it, but I just didn’t have it in me. He said he was doing this all for ME, for MY GOOD. He tried to grab my hand and put it on his dick to show me that I didn’t give him a boner. I shrugged it off and asked him to stop. He frantically started walking around the room telling me I was never going to have a future in this industry and no man would ever find me sexy and he should have a boner but he doesn’t, he doesn’t have a boner looking at me. And then, he pulled his pants down and showed me his dick as he kept yelling ‘see? You don’t even make me hard!’ That’s when I threw his laptop and I walked out of the room. I was petrified and disgusted and I couldn’t believe what had just happened to me. I couldn’t work for this man anymore. That night he called and told me to take a few days off, threatening to fire me. I said nothing to him. Then a few days later he called me up and asked me to come back to work again, and thats when I told him I wouldn’t work for him anymore. He threatened to end my non existing career and throw me out of this industry, and once again, i was scared, but I knew if I kept working for him I’d probably kill myself because I couldn’t take the abuse every day, so I told him to end my career if thats what he wanted to do, but i was done. Just like that, I was gone. No one on set wondered why I quit or what happened. Maybe he said I was fired, maybe he didn't. This isn’t a story no one knows… I’ve told a lot of people about these incidents, and they usually laugh at the audacity the man had, or everyone just says ‘thats Sajid khan for you, he’s pulled off this **** with so many girls’. It was as though it’s just… accepted and known by everyone and no one cares enough to do anything about it because clearly he was working with some pretty big stars. So I decided I’d just shut up, and forget about it. What was I going to do anyway? Fight against him? That thought made me laugh, even at the time. It took me years to get over the trauma he put me through. I was so scared around the people I worked with. And I’m sure he’s done this to so many other girls, I just want them to know they’re not alone. It’s been 7 years, and it’s about time I said it out loud. It was so disturbing to read. Just the mindset of SAjid Khan is beyond sick. Hope this mofo suffers for this. beetle, mishra and UrmiSinhaRay 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vvvslaxman Posted October 11, 2018 Share Posted October 11, 2018 24 minutes ago, wanted_desi said: It was so disturbing to read. Just the mindset of SAjid Khan is beyond sick. Hope this mofo suffers for this. Sadly 90% in movie industry are sick just like him. One of the biggest perks in the movie industry for men is not money or fame. It is the opportunity to exploit gullible women. They exploit to the hilt. Few bite the bullet and cooperate. Few have to go through humiliation. Just because they cooperate it doesn't mean they didn't exploit them. Decision making is not going to be the same for every single woman. These bozos will convince that every actress had to go through this and they end up believing it. Remember the sting operation where shakthi kapoor and aman varma were caught and later bolly industry completely silenced it. Shakthi kapoor told that reporter who posed as actress for audition told even preity zinta had to sleep around. UrmiSinhaRay and Switchblade 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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