FischerTal Posted February 25 Posted February 25 I have a friend who is getting married to a girl 8 years younger than him. He is 32 she is 24. His parents don’t like it but he made up his decision. Wedding is soon. personally I don’t care because I’m going for the booze but I wonder what you guys think.
Texy Posted February 25 Posted February 25 55 & 6 ........ Laaloo, ravishingravi, singhvivek141 and 3 others 5 1
BacktoCricaddict Posted February 25 Posted February 25 Let's call the ages x and y. If x>21 and y>21, then x-y can be anything and it's no one's business to accept or not accept. but for the couple themselves. FischerTal and Lord 1 1
coffee_rules Posted February 25 Posted February 25 3 hours ago, FischerTal said: I have a friend who is getting married to a girl 8 years younger than him. He is 32 she is 24. His parents don’t like it but he made up his decision. Wedding is soon. personally I don’t care because I’m going for the booze but I wonder what you guys think. Congratulations to your “friend’ . Don’t worry it is the. Man ka milan that matters age is just a number. ravishingravi and FischerTal 2
FischerTal Posted February 25 Author Posted February 25 3 hours ago, coffee_rules said: Congratulations to your “friend’ . Don’t worry it is the. Man ka milan that matters age is just a number. main nahi hoon lol. coffee_rules 1
vayuu1 Posted February 26 Posted February 26 6 hours ago, Texy said: 55 & 6 ........ I see what you did here
vayuu1 Posted February 26 Posted February 26 5 hours ago, coffee_rules said: Congratulations to your “friend’ . Don’t worry it is the. Man ka milan that matters age is just a number. Replace MA with LU
coffee_rules Posted February 26 Posted February 26 1 hour ago, vayuu1 said: Replace MA with LU Chee Ashleel baatein!
Vancouver Posted February 26 Posted February 26 As long as both people are adults, no age gap is too big. Age is just a number. You can meet an immature 50-year-old or a highly emotionally intelligent 20-year-old. For example, a man in his early 40s might find it thrilling to attract very young women if he looks young himself. But by this age, you know better and have little patience for immaturity. Long-term attraction usually depends more on emotional connection than on physical appearance. 32 and 24 might feel like a big gap, but 64 and 72? Totally normal. As we grow older, these age differences start to feel completely ordinary.
Nikhil_cric Posted February 26 Posted February 26 Meh. As long as the woman is 18+ and the man is 21+, it's between the couple.
Lord Posted February 26 Posted February 26 23 minutes ago, Nikhil_cric said: Meh. As long as the woman is 18+ and the man is 21+, it's between the couple. Common sense is not allowed on this forum EnterTheVoid and Nikhil_cric 1 1
someone Posted February 26 Posted February 26 Is it Love or arranged marriage (online?) Irrespective, there needs to be, some physical attraction (loyalty?) , money compatibility. They both need to clear and confident about both aspects before their marriage. That itself controls 70% of marriage fights imo. I think Shahid Kapoor has 14 years gap with his wife, yet he had both of the above aspects aligned well.
ravishingravi Posted February 26 Posted February 26 4 hours ago, Nikhil_cric said: Meh. As long as the woman is 18+ and the man is 21+, it's between the couple. Even this is a construct. Someday this too will get challenged. That's where its heading. There are three things to triangulate - biology, maturity, sustainability. 18 and 21 are just numbers and will get challenged.
Nikhil_cric Posted February 26 Posted February 26 17 minutes ago, ravishingravi said: Even this is a construct. Someday this too will get challenged. That's where its heading. There are three things to triangulate - biology, maturity, sustainability. 18 and 21 are just numbers and will get challenged. Everything including religion and nationalism is an artificial construct. It depends on whether you are arguing for raising these ages or lowering these ages
FischerTal Posted February 26 Author Posted February 26 Only reason Im asking is cuz Im genuinely surprised girl said yes. makes me wonder if I should start scouting for my future wife in some college. it sounds so wrong.
FischerTal Posted February 26 Author Posted February 26 5 hours ago, Nikhil_cric said: Meh. As long as the woman is 18+ and the man is 21+, it's between the couple. jo aaj college ke londe hain unki future biwi Abhi Doraemon dekhrahi hogi Nikhil_cric 1
LordPrabhzy Posted February 26 Posted February 26 15 hours ago, coffee_rules said: Congratulations to your “friend’ . Don’t worry it is the. Man ka milan that matters age is just a number. Man hai ya to Lu.. oh never mind coffee_rules 1
EnterTheVoid Posted February 26 Posted February 26 Acceptable for whom? If it's the mutual decision of two consenting adults, who are we to say otherwise? Mariyam 1
kepler37b Posted March 2 Posted March 2 I would say between 3 to 5 years. Girl's age must be lower by 3 to 5 years. This is in general. Of course some couples are exceptions. I do not have any scientific proof for it. But just what I am seeing around me. May be there is some thing the current scientific community is yet to find. And the age of both must be below 28 ideally and below 35 at worst. Else, producing and raising children is going to become a herculean task.
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